If a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] were to come up to you in the street and say: "Punch me in the jaw as hard as you can, please", would you be justified in doing so? No. You would be guilty of assault and battery, even if they wanted you to hit them.
The same is true of sodomy. Sodomy is a violent crime...