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    Paulo Coelho

    Yeah, I guess he can come off that way. I can read him and not be influenced by that though. He tells beautiful stories.
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    What happened?

    She has always been a little on the cold side. Something I have been willing to overcompensate for. i knew she loved me, so I didn't require her to show it the way I would have liked. Her father passed away about three years ago and she did not lean on me at all. She did seem to withdraw...
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    She said she wants out

    thanks. I will do that.
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    She said she wants out

    Thanks, yes, she opened up a little to the marriage counselor. But just a little. She told her that she feels absolutely nothing for me, that if I try to hug her or kiss her, her reaction is to just push me away. She said that she has told me she loved me in response to me saying it, but she...
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    I feel very numb.

    He's still there, brother. We can't always "feel" Him, but He's there. Keep the faith and when you "feel" Him again, it will be worth the wait.
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    This is what is wrong with America

    Yep. It is funny! ^_^ Too bad your thread got hijacked.
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    This is what is wrong with America

    Or it could be titled, "Don't feed the trolls."
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    She said she wants out

    My wife of 12 years told me this week she wants out of oour marriage. I have cried until I have no tears left. I think I am now resigned to the fact that there is no working this out. I pray God will forgive me for my failure.
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    What happened?

    Yeah, I know you are right. The home we live in belongs to her mother, I don't plan to leave unless I'm forced out. And I will definitely be the father I am called to be, I don't know how to be the husband if I can't even get close to her or talk to her. But I will try. Thanks again.
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    What happened?

    Thank you, it means a lot to have the prayers and comforting of fellow christians, even if we've never met. I don't know if she would be happier or not. I know when she is talking with other people and when she is out with other people, she seems happy. But when it is just us, she clams up...
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    What happened?

    Not really. She's a blank wall. no emotion. I think she is just seeing the counselor to indulge me. She has her mind made up. And I'm just grasping at straws to change it. I have cried so much that there aren't any tears left. My head is splitting, my stomach hurts, and it feels like a...
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    What happened?

    I don't know. I hope that's all it is, but I think it's not. She has said that she wants out and that she feels nothing for me anymore. That she doesn't want me to kiss her, hug her, tell her I love her, nothing. I feel like I'm fighting to save something that is already lost.
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    What happened?

    Well we had our first marriage counseling last night. Did not go well. Counselor basically told her that she was reading no emotion from her so she doesn't know if it is something that can be repaired. I don't know how to get through each day.
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    War clouds are gathering

    While I do feel a certain amount of humanitarian responsibility, I do think we as a country tend to overstep our bounds. We are not the world police. That job belongs to the UN. I know it is tragic to hear about attrocities being carried out against innocents. If our motives were purely...
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    If you could fight in any war in history, which would it be?

    I wold want to be a paratrooper in Easy Company under the command of Richard Winters!
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    Christian equivalent to prog rock

    Thanks, brother! Hope everything is going well for you!
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    Christian equivalent to prog rock

    I quite enjoyed a certain band before I became a christian called Coheed and Cambria. i don't think there is necessarily anything wrong with the band, but I would feel more comfortable if the lyrics were more God focused. Does anyone know of a good prog rock equivalent to this band? I just...
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    If you could fight in any war in history, which would it be?

    WW2. Definitely. I have been watching Band of Brothers!
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    Which Old Testament Figure, would you invite for lunch/dinner ... And why ?

    I would like to invite David. He and I have a little in common, he seemed to be an extremist like me. One minute he is praising God, the next he is crying out in pain. Of course, from the new testament, I would think John The Baptist simply becasue he was supposed to be a wild man and I would...
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    Feels like it's over

    Yeah, there's plenty more. i have another thread on here that I started earlier. We've been married 12 years, we have two children. I really don't know what her complaint is, she won't communicate with me. The most I get out of her is that it is just not the same anymore. And it's not...