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    I need a friend

    I would be glad to talk with you, unfortunately I have no time even to talk to myself. :P hehe... but feel free to PM me if you don't mind wating a while for a reply!
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    Whys and wonderings

    I just found out that just before he comitted suicide, my past husband was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, which is similar to high-functioning Autism, charictarized by an obsessive interest in one thing and one thing only (in his case becoming wealthy), difficulty in learning appropriate...
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    On The Freking Edge

    Please read all the posts in the forum before posting a reply! This post of mine was made so long ago that it is now pretty much irrellevant! ;) :P
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    On The Freking Edge

    A quick update to all my buddies on here...My past husband has comitted suicide, according to the report I heard, he did it 15 minutes after he was served with the papers telling him that I had won an order of protection against him. The jail is being investigated on the grounds that it had an...
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    Whys and wonderings

    Well, the reason I feel weird about it is because he did it 15 minutes after being served with my order of protection against him, in jail--he was incarcerated at the time. And also I feel weird about it because I was divorcing him, and I hated his guts(he had abused me mentally, sexually &...
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    A Biblical Divorce

    :scratch: For the congratulations--Thanks...I guess
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    Whys and wonderings

    I wasn't sure wether to post this here or in Greif Support, so if I'm wrong the mods can move this! Anyway to make a long story short, I suffered more than 2 years of constant mental & sexual abuse from my husband, after which I left him--I tell the police about his goings-on(other than what...
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    A Biblical Divorce

    Thank you all...but I no longer need any divorce. I'm a widow now. As for my "other relationship" we are still going strong, and very much in love! thanks for all your prayers and support, Helena
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    Sorry if this sounds mean...

    OK, So I apologize again for sounding so cruel. I know what it's like to feel suicidal, and I know it takes a long time and a lot of work to be able to admit how you really feel to people. But I'm not talking about people who really feel this way, I'm talking about people who use this to get...
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    A Biblical Divorce

    Thanks everyone for your support/opinions...I haven't changed my decision to divorce my husband, and I hadn't planned to, so I'm jsut the same. A little update on the situation--my husband has been released from jail, and has since called me on the phone, and tried to talk to me 4 times in a...
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    Tu Ma Gao

    Not sure what you mean with that, but can we try to stick to the topic? :sorry: You know, strange messeges recieved from an unknown source at night, during trying out a new way of concentrating?
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    Tu Ma Gao

    I'm not going to try to get into an argument about spiritual exercises here...I just wanted to know if anyone knew what this messege meant! :pray:
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    Tu Ma Gao

    Well I sure don't know. But it's definately interesting! ^_^
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    Tu Ma Gao

    The exercise I'm speaking of is one where you relax, close your eyes and focus on a point between your eyebrows--the "spirit eye" or spiritual center in the middle of your forehead. According to the website, you're supposed to fall asleep, slowly, and hold a measure of conciousness, almost as if...
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    A Biblical Divorce

    Obviously your interpretation of the Bible & the words of Jesus are very different from the interpretations I beleive in. But that is a different discussion! I won't get into that here. I thank you for your advice, duly noted, and I will take it into account along with all of the other good...
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    Tu Ma Gao

    Ok, this is how it is--yesterday I was doing a 'spiritual exercise' that I saw posted on a website, to see if anything would happen. It is the kind of thing you do as you're falling asleep at night, trying to control your awarenesses or something. The first time I forgot to do the excercize, and...
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    A Biblical Divorce

    :( Oh dear...I didn't mean to start a fight!! lol! Thanks so much to Inperfected and Kristylee for your support! But seriously, Aumnleaf, Michaelmonfre, and anyone else who reads this thread, please take a look at one of my other threads before making ANY judgement of my situation! I'm...
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    A Biblical Divorce

    :hug: :pray:Thanks Kristylee!
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    A Biblical Divorce

    You've got it all wrong! He didn't break my commitment, he broke HIS, to me. And part of every mutual promise is the fact that if one side breaks, the whole thing is negated and must be made new. I don't feel any commitment to him, because he no longer IS the man I committed myself to! Thanks...