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  1. J

    To married women: Qualities needed for a good wife and husband?

    Since you've opened the door for men to post answers.... A few suggestions: Talk with him about these things. That is the only way you will be able to make this marriage work. My wife doesn't work. We do not have children. She keeps house for us (with my help :) ) and manages our...
  2. J

    Is Spilling Your Seed a Sin? Is It Wrong to Waste Sperm?

    That's an awesome quote. Thanks for making me chuckle. I think everyone is pretty much right here. However, I don't agree with the use of PlanB or other "morning after" solutions. As I (personally) believe them to be an early form of abortion. Condoms are fine for a while (IMHO) but...
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    How did you meet your spouse?

    I was just home from the first gulf war without a job and going to college. I found a job a t a local shooting range where she also worked. We worked together for about a year. I got to the point that I couldn't afford to live in the dorms anymore and moved into her place to share rent. We...
  4. J

    finances/household budget

    My wife and I are one in body and spirit. That doesn't change with money. We both have access to it all at any time. She manages the bills and keeps up with our other finances. She does track who spends what on what things but that's only so that we can make adjustments to our spending...