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  1. Melbelle

    Marriage sex?

    I'm just curious, what is your thought on sinful sex in the marriage? Would willful bondage be sinful? Would watching inappropriate content with your spouse to spice it up be a sin? What are things you think would be crossing that line? Is there a line of sinful sex in the marriage between 1 man and 1 woman?
  2. Melbelle

    Beach Body - Focus T25

    Is there anyone else doing this program? If you've never heard of it, the same guy who created insanity, created this. I'm moving into week 9 right now and so far have seen amazing results. Photo to the left is my first day of the program, 2nd photo is last week of the first set of the...
  3. Melbelle

    My story is still being written

    As of this past Sunday, I've been on my weight loss journey and fitness journey for 2 years. :clap: I've lost 132 lbs! Now working on flattening, tightening and gaining some muscle. I started a new program 8 weeks ago, called Focus T25, when I started I was at goal weight but had a lot...
  4. Melbelle

    Maternity photo's

    I took these of my cousin who is expecting soon. To see even more click here
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    Some shots of my daughter

    I'm still new to this and still learning my camera. I'm working with a Nikon D5000.
  6. Melbelle

    Hey, Fat girl!

    I seen this when I was still over weight and it really moved me to keep pushing, it's something that helped me to really keep motivated and thought everyone who was trying to lose weight should read. Even if you aren't a girl lol.
  7. Melbelle

    My story was published today

    I had submitted my weight loss story to a few places and got an email back earlier today that it was published. click to read Hope maybe it'll help others. :pray:
  8. Melbelle

    How I lost 130 lbs

    This is going to be very detailed so hope I get everything from start to now in there. I have a half a pound more to go to hit my ultimate goal weight. When I was growing up I didn’t really start getting heavy till I was 10, I started to slim up in my teenage years but was never...
  9. Melbelle

    Victim of check fraud - Help?

    Ok guys, I have a question that I am hoping someone can help me with? Friday, Feb 8th, my husband checked our bank account and seen that $1000.00 was missing out of our account. Which left us in the red since we had other bills being paid that day as well. I went online to the bank and seen...
  10. Melbelle

    No idea what to do

    All day today I have had this gut wrenching feeling that my husband has slipped up again, back into his inappropriate content ways. I tried to ignore it, tried to say it's just in my head. However all the signs were there, picking fights with me because he is guilty of something, not wanting sex, rejecting me...
  11. Melbelle

    He is finally coming around!

    I want to brag on my husband but more importantly give Thanks and praise to God! I have prayed and prayed for years that my husband would surrender his addictions over to God, I have prayed that he would surrender himself over to God. Now don't get me wrong, he is a Christian and has been one...
  12. Melbelle

    Did his dream cause him to stick his foot in his mouth?

    So yesterday I was primping, no reason at all just primping. I don't like to look grungy on my day's off from work and I hate my husband to have to come home to his wife looking grungy after a day of work so I try to always get dressed and put on a little makeup. Yesterday I was in the...
  13. Melbelle

    10 year wedding Anniversary coming up

    So my husband and I will celebrate our 10 year Anniversary in June of 2013. We have talked about renewing our vows. We did not have a "wedding" we went to the JP and got married. We did not have a reception or anything either. So we have talked about the whole vow thing. Anyone else renew...
  14. Melbelle

    Disrespect and sex?

    Where do you draw the line? What I mean is, I know that the bible talks about not refusing sex and blah blah blah. But as human I know I do refuse sex sometimes when I'm just tired or something, but how about when you feel your spouse has disrespected you very badly? I know for some that...
  15. Melbelle

    When did "I'm happily married" no longer matter?

    For the past few weeks now I've had comments made to me like "want to hook up?" Or "I'm attracted to you and yet you don't seem to notice me, are you not feeling what I'm feeling here, am I just crazy?" my response to these me are "I'm happily married and do not look at other men in this light."...
  16. Melbelle

    Is this just his way of dealing?

    I don't post much on here, but I need to figure something out. Last night I had to go to the ER for bad pain on my ovaries. Ended up having a ruptured cyst. Anyway's my husband brought me to the ER. The entire day yesterday I felt like crap, my stomach hurt all day, I had very little sleep. I...
  17. Melbelle

    How I lost 116lbs

    I figured I'd post this here. I've been asked this a lot "How did you do it?" First let me just say, there are no secrets. There are no easy way's to lose it and keep it off. I have just 15-20 more pounds to go to hit my ultimate weight loss goal. Honestly I am smaller now then I was in high...
  18. Melbelle

    My 8 year old Son had this dream

    About 4am this morning my 8 year old son comes busting through my bedroom door in tears, and I grabbed him scared the crud out of me. He told me he had a bad dream. I asked him what his dream was about. He told me that there was a bad earthquake. First off my son does not know much at all about...
  19. Melbelle

    Stars falling out of the sky

    The night before last (Wednesday night) I had a dream that my husband and I were driving down the road, I remember when I was looking out the window we were driving past a field with a tree standing off with a pond next to the tree, and high grass, it was dark out and the moon was very bright...
  20. Melbelle

    Hurtful words

    This one I just wrote like 5 minutes ago. I had been working on it for about 2 hours. It's a poem that is very true, the emotions are very real. The words are pretty harsh, but this is how I get most my anger out. Hurtful words! Standing in the dark, my hand I cannot see The sins of...