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  1. chelsea89

    Rapid weight loss

    I am vecoming concerned about my extreme weight loss Over two months Ive dropped from 135 lbs ti 108lvs Im eating normally, not exercising at all, I dont take medications. Ive been under alot of financial stress but Im not sure you drop 30 lbs in 2 months due to stress. My maternal aunt and...
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    ADHD mother now raising an ADHD boy

    I have Adult ADHD carried over from my childhood and now my 5 year old son has it. I feel bad lnowing how much I struggle to keep a job, make or maintain friends, and just do normal everyday things and I dont want this for him. He been removed from school, disrupts his classroom, and I cant get...
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    The War on Men?

    The article isn't a very good basis for this debate but I do see where the Oap is coming from. Men and women have different views, different anatomy that serves a collective purpose, and they subsequently have different roles in a marriage/child rearing. For instance men are more likely to let...
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    MBIT personality assessment

    Has anyone here been given an MBIT persinaliry assessment? I got INFP and its explained alot of thinking patterns and behaviours that seemed peculiar as well as helping me understand my thinking process. My IQ measured quite high as well which further explains my socially distorted views. In...
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    Laziness

    I knew he was a gamer but beyond that I had no clue how lazy he was... Mainly because he wasn't . When we were dating he always had his room cleaned, would make me lunch or dinner, and go out and do things lije to the movies etc. He was an A student un school and had planned to become an...
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    Am I missing something here?

    I would love to go to counseling but we don't have the finances for it amd he certainly wouldn't go. Either way I'm just tired and I don't think he can get why because I have back p"oblems and because of that most of the time I'm sitting or lying down. I still get up and get what needs done...
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    Am I missing something here?

    I've moved away with the kids before. He jist runs off to his parents house and I can't singlehandedly support them. The last time I ended up homeless begging him to take the kids. He's basically either babysitter while I work or our income but he doesn't act like a husband. Its security for now...
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    Am I missing something here?

    Yesterday my husband worked 6 hours on his last day of a two week seasonal job. I had our two boys and my friends 7 year old girl until around 3:30 pm when he got home. He just sat on the recliner, turned on his games, and had me start dinner. No big deal. He just has to take it out so I can...
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    Help

    There is always forgiveness.for everything. Do you think God hasn't seen your sins before you were born? He knows what you've done from the moment you're born to the moment you die and He chose to save you! God has forgiven murderers like David and Moses and Paul and rapists and fornicators like...
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    What to do about the systematic corruption of children?

    I agree wholeheartedly. I've seen this firsthand growing up with drug addicted parents, eventually an absentee father, and then spent the last six years of my so called "childhood" being raised by abusive foaster parents and group homes devoid of love and compassion. Its been a struggle to...
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    Laziness

    Yes, a 4.0 graduating from Medical Assisting and there are no jobs in my field yay! sarcasm noted. And I have 3 kids a 5 year old boy, 3 year old boy and 1. year old girl.
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    Laziness

    No his mom and dad work but his mom gets all of the extra work around the house. His dad didn't know.how to change my sons diaper when he came home yet this.guy has fathered 7.children. And he has.since stood up to his parents and moved 3000 miles across country with.me. And they had his two...
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    Laziness

    We dated for 2 years before getting married. He lived with his parents but his room was always clean, ( I later learned mommy did that), we didn't have a car so we walked everywhere and although he was heavierset at the time its nothing to how he is now. We went out to eat and watch movies we...
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    Laziness

    Hahahaha Im sorry but that is hillarious considering his family! All men do in his culture apparently is sit on their butts and order women around. His parents are from El.Salvador and his dad has told him to screw the kids, he can have more, and his dad will set him up to move to El Salvador...
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    Laziness

    I mean am I wrong to complain a little here? I went to college and graduated with a 4.0 as a single mother because he got angry and threw a foit. I've had to sell video games to pay rent, panhandle to pay rent, and make every doctors appointment, dental appointment, welfare, wic, new birth...
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    Laziness

    No he's just lazy. I'm starting to worry about his health because he eats so much we are a household of five going through $800 a month in food. And he's just always been lazy. He worked at a job for $8.75 an hour for five years with no benefits, he won't get a diploma, he's at a temporary job...
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    Laziness

    You're right he doesn't want to try. He could've taken the last two classes for his diploma from the time he was 17, we even split for a while and he had 9 months of working part time with no kids or responsibilities at all that he could've taken the classes. It seems we've signed him up every...
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    I feel hurt by my daughter in law

    <Staff edit> I think you missed the point of the thread Gaven.
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    Help, New:)

    Don't worry Boidai, I know I'm saved, with or without speaking im tounges. :)
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    Stop Bullying!

    They are. I was bullied my whole elementary-middle school years and only once did someone try to help me, feebly, and to no.avail. I tried suicide too, the bleach just made me puke, but I got through it. Two of my friends didn't . I've seen alot of callousness on this issue in other forums...