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    Struggling Christian

    Reading this just summed up so much of what I need to hear daily concerning my struggle with homosexuality. I think I'm gonna be printing out this your post for constant reference.
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    HOCD and struggling with purity

    Hmm..I will read your story later today. Its so bold to be open about your story.
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    Fear Of Lusting

    I'm with Johnnz on NOT cutting yourself away from the world. You should understand that it is good news that you are trusting God to help you out of your problem but don't think about how much you are doing or if it is enough. Honestly commune with your God and let him take complete control. God...
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    girl struggling with homosexual feelings

    I don't know if this will help but you have to start with the root of the problem. It is usually an emotional damage that has caused you to act out this way. Its the same as me. My attraction to guys took on new meaning when I decide to look deeply into the matter. I now know it is centrally...
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    Homosexuality :(

    I thank everyone for their stories. It really shows the power of God and how much we should really trust in him and only him for healing.
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    Not understanding some things [moved from prayer requests]

    I pray for your complete healing. Just like me, it is best to be always aware of God's love for you and that he has forgiven your past sins. Do not hold on to your past. Don't let the guilt cripple you. That is one thing I have grown to learn.
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    Struggling with homosexuality

    Thanks for your reply. I wasn't expecting it. It was a realization that I honestly always knew but I guess the pain of just confronting that truth made me deny it for so long. Of course, the Devil used that to his advantage and here I am now. I live in a very secular city and although I tried to...
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    Noticing patterns of giving in to temptation

    Thanks a lot for letting me gain new insight into my problem. Battling the giving in stage is what gives a lot of momentum to beating homosexual behavior.
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    God does not give us more than we can bare eh?

    This sentiment is definitely what keeps me going. I have to keep reminding myself everyday.
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    Homosexuality as a choice!

    Its really different for anyone. I remember the first day I actually masturbated. At that point it was all about just discovering my body but then being scared of my dad and feeling detached from other boys my age just started the weird journey that I have been on since then. No one consciously...
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    Overcoming Cyber Sex

    I am in the same situation as you even though my case has elevated to a whole new level because now due to some intense pressures in my life, It has become a way to self medicate. But I would suggest for you to approach this carefully. Going out and dating is a temporary fix and its not a good...
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    dealing with overmasturbation. afraid i might move to inappropriate content

    I know exactly how you feel. I'm not even saying that because its such a common thing to say but I truly feel your pain. One thing I have noticed with the temptations is that their intensity feeds off of our connections to feeling down or depressed. I feel that one way to weaken the temptations...
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    Struggling AND more struggle with homosexuality

    My mental health is definitely in a very bad state right now. I never sleep properly and my mind is completely under pressure all the time all cause of my guilty feelings and just never being at rest. Everyday for me is a miserable cycle. Wake up feeling numb, waste time getting into a negative...
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    Struggling AND more struggle with homosexuality

    Hey Joe. Very blessed to get a reply from you on my situation. Its really comforting to have someone else really understand what I am going through. The thing with my Dad, you really understood where I am coming from and you are right about the anger. I am still holding on to it and it is like a...
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    Struggling AND more struggle with homosexuality

    :bow: Thank you for the reply Louise. You put everything in perspective. Its so true when you say one has to choose who to listen to. Its that simple. I do look forward to what else you have to say..Thanks for reminding me about how God works in every situation that we encounter.
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    Struggling with homosexuality

    Well. I just recently joined this forum and It was so good reading about the stories of all you people. In such a situation such as the one I'm in, it can begin to feel so lonely that it becomes overpowering. I'm a 26yr old guy who has been attracted to guys since I was a kid. Over the years, I...
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    Struggling AND more struggle with homosexuality

    Even attempting to start my story seems like an uphill task in itself. But the fact that I am writing on a forum like this must possibly be signs of hope. I'm a 26 year old suffering from same sex desires. Now, my struggle has been in motion ever since I was born to be honest. Of course I have...