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  1. mercyfollowsme

    Stockholm syndrome and church

    I've been semi pro for a while, but I believe that's not really related to this. Probably more my depression, or some social aspect.
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    Stockholm syndrome and church

    Music, and it's something I've done previously so not out of lack of talent.
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    Stockholm syndrome and church

    I go to a place of refuge where I feel rejected and unacceptable, yes maybe the title is dramatic.
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    Stockholm syndrome and church

    Maybe he thinks I'm not there spiritually, and he'd be right to a degree, but I need to get involved and not be marginalised.
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    Stockholm syndrome and church

    The pastor is my problem, he won't roster me, and when I ask, he gets embarrassed like he knows it's a problem.
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    Stockholm syndrome and church

    The church I'm going to, is something I know I need but I loathe it at times. People are fake, say hello, but aren't interested in real friendship. I don't know if they are like this to all or just me, but I can't seem to get accepted. I want to join in serving, but they won't roster me on. I...
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    Stopped believing God cares

    You have my complete unreserved sympathy. I'm pretty much in the same place, struggling to reconcile my Christian upbringing with real life faith, at the very bottom. And if it doesn't work at the very bottom,it's not real. Maybe be grateful you have an education and empathy with the majority...
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    Is Jesus the answer to all of life's problems?

    i dont think thats true at all. do you know people in deep need who pray every day, and why is it that they are still there????
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    Is Jesus the answer to all of life's problems?

    most people in this world would love to have "normal", what the wealthy west takes for granted. stop stretching the point, people live in dire circumstances, they dont want a sports car! or their own private jet!
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    Is Jesus the answer to all of life's problems?

    moving the goalposts doesnt help your arguement
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    Sick of cliches.

    confirmation bias is a problem here. Mormons, catholics, JWs, will all confirm that their way is true, because they *know*.
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    Is Jesus the answer to all of life's problems?

    So if youre born with literally nothing, and have no socio-economic mobility, then you're probably going to not benefit. Its sounds pretty dire, and benefits rich western people with insurance who dont need a miracle to survive. or does God help those who have nothing and have no choice?
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    Sick of cliches.

    what is truth? maybe you just assumed what people told you was true?
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    Is Jesus the answer to all of life's problems?

    so i guess you're saying Jesus helps in certain situations, but others no.
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    Sick of cliches.

    "its in Gods timing" "God knows whats best" "God has a plan" "Find out what to do while your waiting" really find these slogans so meaningless
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    Is Jesus the answer to all of life's problems?

    so it wouldnt help in time limited problems if the soul needs fixing first? serious question.
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    Animal suffering and the problem of pain

    The stock answer for the age old question of God and evil is that freewill is the reason that evil and pain exists, and that no more pain than is necessary in the world exists. Of all the possible worlds that could exist, this one has the least amount of pain required to achieve free will and...
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    Is Jesus the answer to all of life's problems?

    We need education to get a good job, we need to be healthy to have a good body, we need to save money to buy something important. Many problems in life are the result of the natural order, people chose their partner according to carnal, social and material factors etc, so can Jesus be the...
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    How to be Saved Without Christ

    its my opinion. you can believe the opposite, but God sending aborted babies to hell is not one i chose to.
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    Who has the greatest claim to the tithe?

    are you catholic? i dont have priests in my church,and i fully accept the principle of giving to the church, but not as a legalistic OT hangover where pastors assume the rights of levites.