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    forgiving abuse

    Forgiveness doesn't mean you accept the abuse, it doesn't make the abuse "right", and it doesn't mean you have to go back. Forgiveness is for you, not the person who hurt you. It means you are not letting the abuse hurt you anymore. Forgiveness is a process, one you have to do over and over...
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    How do I cope with the wait?

    Hi LittleH, I am so glad you found the courage to post. That is a huge step right there! I too have ptsd. I left my abuser 4 yrs ago. One thing which has helped me tremendously is music, and a craft, something you find relaxing. Talking to someone also helps, not necessarily about your past...
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    songs from the book of Psalms

    thank you for replying, Seele, and yes, it does count :)
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    songs from the book of Psalms

    I am doing a study of the Book of Psalms, and I am looking for contemporary Christian songs that are based on Psalms, or have Psalms in them. Any ideas are welcome! Thanks!!
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    Not doing so good

    Hi Ella I just saw this post. I am so sorry this happened to you. I am here for you, praying, and if you need someone to talk to feel free to send me a PM anytime. I was Catholic. My abuser, now ex, was hiding behind the catholic church, denying abuse, blaming me for feeling isolated, and...
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    abusive boyfriend...

    Somescars, I am so sorry to hear about your friend, I am praying for you And I am not mad, sorry I've been quiet for a bit, I lost my job and have been very busy looking for work. I am still here, and still praying for you
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    abusive boyfriend...

    praying
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    Start menu for Windows 8 desktop

    True, that could very well happen. They work for now
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    I know I should walk away

    You are not trapped, there is a way out. The domestic violence hotline can get you to safety. You will start to heal when you leave. Being with someone who is abusive is much worse than being with nobody at all. It will feel better if you don't feel confident about being by yourself, and that is...
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    Start menu for Windows 8 desktop

    My job is tech support, and I've been getting a lot of calls about Windows 8. The Windows 8 desktop does not have the familiar start menu or start button. It took me a bit to get used to not having a start menu. A number of times I caught myself diving with the mouse to click the start button...
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    Even NEW computers can be infected with malware!

    Classed by whom? Where did the 85% come from? It is not good to have more than 1 anti virus program running all the time. If you have 2 anti virus programs running simultaneously they will conflict with each other, and maybe even call each other a virus. I have seen those machines as well...
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    abuse and the process of healing

    One step at a time :hug:
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    Even NEW computers can be infected with malware!

    That is true. And yes, it is working quite good. In fact if you are upgrading to Windows 8 and have Microsoft Security Essentials you will have to uninstall it before starting the upgrade.
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    So I purchased and installed Windows 8...

    Bible Explorer worked fine when I had Win7 64 bit, and so did e-Sword. I have Win8 now, and I have Glo Bible (Glo Bible: Experience the Bible like never before) It works great
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    abuse and the process of healing

    Good morning again! :) Hope you have a great day!!
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    abusive boyfriend...

    You are not alone, there are people to help you, but you have to ask for their help Praying
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    Facebook.

    I think it's futile to fight facebook simply because it's gotten so big.
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    Even NEW computers can be infected with malware!

    The HOSTS file determines how the computer connects to the internet. Doing it incorrectly could keep you out of the internet completely.