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Whose reality? This poster is not living in reality. She rather stay in delusion and misery than hear what her husband is saying. Marriage is not a prison. That poster will continue to be miserable because she will not face reality. You cannot put all of your joy and happiness in another...

Although I thank everyone for their advice, it is quite clear that this was not the correct venue to come to for it. How can a person like HISservant21, who has posted above and claims judgment day is May 21, 2011 give any advice that one would consider Christian. All this means to me is...

Although I thank everyone for their advice, it is quite clear that this was not the correct venue to come to for it. How can a person like HISservant21, who has posted above and claims judgment day is May 21, 2011 give any advice that one would consider Christian. All this means to me is that...

This is an important question that I truly need to think about. I will not answer it in this open forum, but I appreciate you asking it and I will think about this.

I am not still in love with any other person. I have been faithful to and focused on my wife in the time I have been with her. That is not the point. The reason I stated that I did not want to hear that regarding divorce is because there are alot of things that God does not like. But, we...

Thank you. I will take this into consideration. I am really not talking about feeling constant butterflies around a person or anything like that. I guess it is difficult to explain, but those who have been there seem to understand. Living in misery with another cannot be what God wants. But...

I did not write this post to have to be on the defensive about one part of the post that is really of no consequence. I am not sure where you are from but people do have people in their lives that they may once have been in love with but due to life circumstances they did not end up together...

I am not sure what your point is in this line of questioning. It is totally irrelevant to anything. I have heard what you have to say and appreciate you sharing. Take care.

No one is ignoring your post. You offered an opinion, I do not have to agree with it. As you can see from other responses there are many opinions. This is yours which I find to be extreme and skewed based on your interpretation. Thank you for offering it. I am not sure what else you would...

Again, it is not really about the other person, I should not have mentioned that, people seem to be stuck on it. I am not married to that person because I was much younger then and she moved away for work reasons. I married my wife because I felt compelled to do so by what I was reading in the...

I agree with the poster who stated that there might be some deeper mental health issues here. For someone to believe this so strongly says a lot about his mental state. Please pray for him but also try to get him some help. Also, keep track of what he is doing so you are not caught off guard...

Thank you so much. I appreciate that. Wow, so is that it? To just live and suffer. I cannot imagine that this is what an all loving God would want us to do. Thank you again for all of your responses. It is good to know I am not alone.

Yes, I changed it because it was being mis-interpreted. My only reason for referencing someone else was to state that I know the difference between real love and forced love. But it was not coming across that way and instead made it seem like I am longing for another woman. I am not. I have...

There is no other woman. This is not about any other woman. I was just using an illustration that I know the difference between real love and forced love. I am not thinking of any other woman. It seems that many cannot entertain the idea that one made a mistake. Many people do. I have...

Thank you so much for your response. Yes, I would always be there for her as long as she would let me. I love her as a friend. I would always be willing to take care of her. I agree with you that using the scriptures as the sole reason for choosing a spouse is flawed. I think for some...

It is not about other women. It is about this woman. I do not think this is the woman for me. We married young. I know in my heart I made a mistake. I feel like all are saying this is my cross to carry. I do not think that makes for a very good life to live. But I asked and these are the...

It is said that God speaks to us through His Word. The Bible. When I met her it was through Bible study. I felt that God through his Word was leading me to marry her. I was trying to be obedient to what I thought I was being led to do. If I had to do it again, I would also do what your...

No she does not. I would never do anything to intentionally hurt her. I am just looking for advice.

It was broken with your divorce and further broken when he was intimate with someone else besides you. The concept of divorce and putting away in the bible is misunderstood. Jesus is saying haven't you read that if a married couple separates without an actual divorce, they are still...