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    What do you find physically unattractive about a person?

    Fat. I just can't find it attractive. A little overweight, OK. Big boned, not necessarily a bad thing. But I find truly fat women unattractive. I know its not PC, but it is what it is.
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    How long am I supposed to wait?

    The good news is that I am in the dating pool on a regular basis for the first time in my life. I have a date about every two weeks with someone. I'm 35 now and until 6 months ago, I was too shy to date anyone for my whole adult life. I have been out more times in the last 6 months than in the...
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    I can't date someone like this

    I have had quite a few recent dates with women who, while very nice and attractive, viewed anyone who is not a born again Protestant as "doomed" and hellbound. Well, that's an issue for me, because #1 it is not what I believe, as much I believe in Jesus and accept him as the Lord. I simply...
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    Washington State Christians set to grant rights to another group of people

    Any Washingtonian who doesn't like it and feels that his or her heterosexual marriage will be threatened is welcome to move to one of the other 43 states that ban marriage equality.
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    I will not vote for any candidate who has had extramarital affairs

    I am all for forgiveness. But the presidency demands character and moral leadership, and such is inconsistent with adultery. Anyone who has cheated on their spouse is ineligible for my vote.
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    The clown show Republican candidate field

    The GOP candidate field is made up of adulterers, racists, sexual harassers and a religious cultist. Pathetic.
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    Do you think I'll ever be able find this kind of man...

    It sounds like you are looking for a man who is without sin, and has been a Christian his whole life. I think you'll be hard pressed to find that. I'd be happy to meet a girl like you, but only if you could accept the fact that I am not perfect in my past or in the present, and that I only...
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    Lonliness

    There are days I just can't take it anymore. I sometimes wonder if I am doomed to a life of being alone, or if I will just end up getting married out of sheer desperation to someone out of mutual convenience, and we won't love each other. I have always been shy and lacking in confidence around...
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    The Wedding Stuff Thread (please avoid if you don't want to see mush)

    Just to marry a beautiful woman who I am in love with and her with me. Who makes my heart flutter just upon seeing her. That dream seems so ever far out of reach.
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    Has anyone read Mara Hvistendahl's book Unnatural Selection?

    I found the book very eye-opening and disturbing. Due to sex selective abortion or outright killing of girls after they are born in China, India and many other eastern nations, there is now a growing shortage of females in these nations. This is leading to many social consequences that are...
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    Soon to be Extinct: Down Syndrome Kids

    The top reason cited for women choosing abortion is not being able to afford to raise a child. I'm sure this is even more true with parents of children who are known to have disabilities before they are born. We would have a lot fewer abortions in this country if we would get serious about...
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    What's the point of physical attractiveness?

    The fact is that I just have a hard time getting motivated to pursue a relationship with a woman who is unattractive. I'm sure many women (and in my youth, girls) have rejected me for not meeting up to their standards of attractiveness. That is their right. I believe I enjoy the same right of...
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    Romney: Corporations are people too

    At an Iowa State Fair appearance Thursday morning, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney responded to a heckler who was calling for increased taxes on corporations by summoning his inner John McCain. "Corporations are people, my friend," the GOP presidential candidate said. I guess this is...
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    I hope someday I meet a nice Christian girl

    I just wonder how long I will have to continue waiting. Being single my whole life is not an outcome I am willing to accept.
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    The Lost Years of Jesus

    Almost 20 years of His life is unrecorded. And yet we are told that He never sinned, which means he could have done some remarkable things during these years, even before his ministry. Also, I felt myself teased by this passage in John 21:25: Now there are also many other things that Jesus...
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    Newt Gingrich is an adulterer

    Hebrews 13:4: Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. (KJV) If he can't keep is marriage vows (twice, mind you), how could he keep his presidential oath to America?
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    I fantasize about being married and in love

    I probably fit the description of what professor Brian Gilmartin's book calls a love shy man. I never developed any confidence at all around girls as an adolescent and around women as an adult. I had many crushes from junior high through college, but they all either blew me off, laughed at me...
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    Could you wait 1000 years before you meet your love?

    That's certainly what I am hoping. Not that I have given up on Earth and this world, but maybe there is something better for us in heaven---if we get there. If it is said that in heaven there is love and happiness and there is no poverty or sin or hunger, etc., maybe that also means that we...
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    Hypothetical question for you all

    Sounds like a great movie script. Actually, what you suggested is kind of like the opposite of the movie Bedazzled with Bredan Fraser as the protagonist and Elizabeth Hurley as the Devil. I have fallen in love many times, but I am fairly sure that no woman has ever fallen in love with me...
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    Does God have a plan for you?

    I worry every day that God's plan does not include a wife (or even a girlfriend) for me. Maybe He'll match me up with someone nice in the Kingdom of Heaven.