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    What is a good friend?

    Many people consider friendship to be an important part of life. People probably have different definitions of what friendship is to begin with. But I have wondered for some time what a good friend is. I've also questioned myself (and God, in prayer) at what point a friendship is hardly even...
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    dilemma

    Hello. I moved to a certain small city so I could work on a grad degree at a school there. While doing so, I ran into some financial struggles. Finding a job was difficult, but I finally got one, though it paid just 5 cents more than minimum wage. I finished my degree a couple of weeks ago...
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    When to accept gifts, and when not

    I'm currently working at a minimum wage job. I'm also trying to finish up a degree at a local school. I'm a bit older, and this is not my first degree. Since I'm also making monthly payments for loans I took out as an undergrad, I'm really struggling to get by. I don't have a car or other...
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    a bit of an invasion

    Hello. I have a situation that I've wondered how to best handle. Basically, over the summer I visited some friends who live farther away. I tried to get my mail forwarded, but in the process (I guess because of timing of the mail forwarding going into effect, and because certain types of...
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    friend or foe

    There's a certain situation I've encountered that I've been trying to put into perspective, and I wondered if any of you might have some thoughts or insights into this type of situation. Not too long ago, from 2006 to 2010, I lived in a certain southern city and attended a christian church...
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    Giving it a try - or not

    I'm somewhat atypical in that I'm well into my thirties now and have never really had a boyfriend, never been kissed romantically, etc. Essentially, I grew up thinking I was supposed to avoid sexuality as much as possible. As a young girl, I thought I was supposed to try to stay as pure as...
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    A blunder of sorts

    Hi. Well, I've made a sort of mistake in life that is probably not the most typical mistake. In recent months, I've come to realize I should no longer do this and should remedy it in whatever ways I can. Here is the situation. For a few years, I went by a type of pseudonym (not just on the...
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    what to say to a friend

    Hi. Well, I have an older platonic male friend, and I've been wondering what to say to him, or for general suggestions. The story is a little unusual. I'll call him Jay in this writing. We met when I was 20. I was an undergrad student. He had gone back to school and was also an undergrad...
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    Songs of Joy

    In 1989, when I was quite young, there was a song on christian radio that I really liked. I haven't heard it in years, and I'm not sure what the title of it is or who sings it. A couple of the lines were, "... Songs of joy, in the honor of the Lord most High... We lift his name... All the...
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    Hello, friends, romans, countrymen...

    Hi, I've joined the forum, and I'm glad to be here. Just wanted to briefly introduce myself. :wave: