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Thankyou for your kind thoughts. I am humbled by them. Anything I am is because of him. Trials in life hurt, but I am better closer to God because of this. Had he asked me oif I wanted to go through this, I would have said "no thankyou". But I am thankful for the trials in life, and what they...

Thankyou again for taking time out of your day to give me your thoughts. Today we went for a walk and did some talking. She is leaning twords the divorce yet. If I were a betting man I would say it is a done deal. She is concerned about loosing the money she has payed her lawyer for the divorce...

Thankyou for all your thoughts. I know that you can only go by what you read. There was so many thoughts since I posted this. I have stood by this whole time and not tried to force or manipulate anything. I knew from the start of this that God was the only one who can work it out.I have...

Hello, For those who do not remember. My wife had an affair with my sisters husband a year ago. The affair ended almost a year ago. I have forgiving her and would like to reconcile. She still is unsure. She tells me that she cannot forgive herself and the family dynamics. I...

I just want to give a praise report. My wife and I are talking. She is dealing with alot of guilt, the hardest thing is forgiving yourself. Things are looking up. Thankyou for your prayers, and continual prayers. What an awesome God we serve

It has been a while since I posted. Lfe has been very hectic. I want to thank everyone who has prayed for my family. My sister and her husband are attempting to reconcile. They are working with the pastor. My wife is working things out with herself. There is a tremendous amount of guilt. I think...

Thankyou for your thoughts and prayers. I rely on my Lord and Savior for everything in mylife. He has saved me over and over from hard times. Why would I not trust him now. I am going to meet with my wife tomorrow. We have not spoken face to face since the start of November. I pray for Gods...

Thankyou whitebeaches,it makes me feel good to know that people are praying for my wife and I. I do not know all the answers butr I know that God loves me and I love him. He gave me the most wonderful wife in the world I had 16 wonderful loving years. I was ver happy to be married. I pray I amk...

Thankyou for your prayers gloryseven and servantofmercifulLove. I am so blessed to have so many saints of God praying for me. I thought maybe some would grow tired of hearing of my struggles. I have met so many rea christians during this trial. I cannot wait for the day when I can report the...

Thankyou whitebeaches it has been a long battle. Some people have told me they do not understand why I would want her back. They told me you can forgive her but not take her back. Maybe that is true, I do not know. The thing is I love this woman so much. Up until this affair she was the best...

Thankyou Everyone for your prayers. It has been roller coaster ride of emotions. My wife has stated that if God were to tell her to reconcile she would, even if we were to be divorced. I do not understand why she does not realize it is God's will for restoration. She said she does not feel any...

Thankyou again for all the thoughts. I know I am not perfect. Yes you are only hearing one side of the story. Ift the cause of the break-up I was comfortable telling all you would see that in this case the cause of the break-up is one sided. What perrfekt was saying sounds like my situation. My...

Thankyou for your advice. This is so emotionall excruciating. I was suprised to see her in church yesterday as she said she would never come back to our church. It was so hard to be there and not sitting with her. I do not know where this is going. I have made no secret that I love her and would...

Thankyou for all your thoughts. I did not mean that she has to break before me, but before the Lord.I was very suprised and happy to see her in church today! I never thought she would come back to our church. We all attend this church and most people are aware what happened.I think it was a good...

Thankyou wayfaring man, his world is falling apart. His business is failing and he wants his family nback. I do not know what my sister is going to do. She has a tuff decision. She said it would be easier if it was someone else other than my brothers wife. I pray she does the thing that is best...

Thankyou for allowing me to come here and ask for prayer. This has been a long hard battle for me. My wife has found out that my brother-in-law was lying to her and just using her for sex. He has told her there was no love on his part, it was only for the sex. She had believed all his lies and...

Thankyou Life2Christ, at one time I would have went running back. That is not the case today. I am not sure if she will even try and come back. The way it sounds is th BIL broke things off. That could mean she did not want to and is mourning the loss. If she does want to reconcile it will be...

Hello everyone, It has been a few days since I have posted. It has been a ruff period of time dealing with my marriage falling apart. I have been crying out to God. Today my sister stopped over and told me that we needed to talk. This is not the sister who's husband is having...

Thankyou Catherineanne, this forum has been good for me. This is a new situation for me. I am trying to understand it all. God has not promised us a rose garden. He did promise to be there with us as we go through the fire. I am holding on as tight as I can. It has been a very ruff few says. I...

I feel bad I have been so caught up in my problem I have forgot to mention my sister. She is having a hard time with this situation also. She is having a hard time with her faith. She does not understand why God does not hammer her husband and my wife. I would like prayer for her. Thankyou