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    In the beginning...

    Hi brothers and sisters, I'm asking for advice cos I'm a bit confused abt an event that happened in the history of Christianity. At which point did God have to send His only sin to die for us and why? Why and who decided that only blood shed wld be able to cleanse us from sin? Adam...
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    thers a time for everything...

    Hi guys, So we all know that bible teaching 'there's a time for everything'. So does this mean theres a time not to worship and go do something with ur life. I know these Christians that wld go to a prayer camp just before a big test. Or some that attend crusades before exams...
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    how to advise a friend...

    Hi. I've got a slight problem with how to approach a girlfriend an issue. The situation is that these my gfs are accepting money from elderly men who only seek Sexual gratification from them. The men are married and some w kids. My gfs also r in a relationship of some sort. Some r in...
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    making a living, greed, idolising money.

    Hi, I've always been curious, what makes a man acquire airports, whole lengths of estate or even expansion of a company worldwide. I'm confused abt when making money becomes greed. When r we making money and when r we being greedy?
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    Is my 13 year old normal. I think not but would be interested in others views

    I'm no professional on parenting but hv u tried negative reinforcments and hw hv they worked? Pushing him away is probably a form of neg reinforcement and shld def be used even tho it hurts. U mentioned that he's a cute kid and so what abt some sex education? As it wld teach him how to deal...
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    social norms and hw it affects godly living

    Hi everyone, Yes another curious question from me. I'm thinking abt female thats got facial hair and chest hair. Combine this pic w obese ppl and bad manners to most of us. When, shld we as christians think abt a change if any assuming I am the female that has facial and chest hair? Or...
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    Is my 13 year old normal. I think not but would be interested in others views

    Firstly, he's 13 so how and y wld u b praying abt it for 13 yrs? Then educate him on appropriate behaviour and then dictate it to him. Ur his mom so get some control but in a way that doesn't make him feel bad, although I sense some manipulation on his behalf.
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    marriage, love and parents inbetween :(

    O I'm sry for the confusion, use shorthand a lot and 'sth' is something :)
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    marriage, love and parents inbetween :(

    Personally, marriage is not sth I think abt now but I hv a feeling my parents Got hv a prob w gf that I've had. It's a silly, very unrighteous matter of race but love her and decided to keep my faith in the Lord abt this issue. I'm not worrying abt it but just letting things run its course...
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    marriage, love and parents inbetween :(

    Hi brothers and sisters, I wonder how many of u guys out there hv gone thru issues involving u and ur loved one. Someone u love dearly and wish to spend the rest of ur life w. But ur parents dnt approve, either cos of her race, financial status or some silly reason. As cliche as a soap...
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    what can i do with blessings i get.

    Hi, I've read the forum help abt blessings but cnt seem to understand them. Cn anyone explain this blessing system? What cn I do with them and what's the use
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    Is it healthy to dream abt friends?

    That's what I'm implementing now and its looking good but I'm still occasionally falling back. I'm grateful that i hv a gf that understands my struggles and doesn't mind hitting me at times beating the lust out of me. Lol It's looking good but I no I've got to get tlrid of it completely or get...
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    Is it healthy to dream abt friends?

    Hi, I'm Sry my posts r always centered ard the same topic and that is lust and I hope that the moderators will not warn me again. Im battling lust and sharing the problem will help me get rid of these issues so im not here to bring up controversial topics or offend ppl by contamination Gods...
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    Prayer for God to take my attraction to men away

    Hi, Firstly, want u to no that were all going thru Sth difficult in our life from 'small' to 'big' such as gluttony and aldultery respectively But as I hv and still is battling lust, I've realised many times that I failed on my own strength. It's not a ez road and like what most of ur...
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    sodomy a sin?

    Hello ppl Accidentally deleted previous post on same topic. So is oral sex with the opposite sex within marriage a sin?
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    Is there such a thing as unrighteous sex?

    Hi everyone, God gave us certain laws to abide by and one of these is fornication. However is there sex that God doesn't like between married couples? I'm just thinking abt all the different fetishes ppl developed these days .
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    What courting couples are do

    Hi everyone, I'm currently dating and as a way of preventing unrighteous happenings, I'd like to know what other courting couples did or are doing. I've somehow grown to feel like without pleasing her physically, then she's not hapy and that I think is the primary cause of the problem...
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    Are dislikes a sin?

    i can relate with emmy most. i often think to myself, better for others to offend/insult/be rude to me than me doing it to others. in this way i KNOW that im making the ONLY one that can take me to heaven very happy. so i will pray and ask for His intervention in my life for me to withstand...
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    Are dislikes a sin?

    Hello ppl, I'm just wondering, we're all human beings and there's bound to b preference towards what we like and dnt. By this I'm referring to ppl. I dnt like loudness and so tend to dislike being ard loud ppl. Or another example r those that talk too much and even ppl that aren't friendly...
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    Favourite bible verses and application

    Hi guys, I wld like to share my experience when I first rediscovered God. I wld look at the back of a bible where it wld suggest verses on topics like obeying God. One verse I've loved so much and its soo plain in its meaning is Colossians 3. Ever since reading it, I've tried to conform to...