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One of the most successful lies of the devil is that "being in love" or longing for it is somehow more noble than other feelings, not just a form of lust. Love is a decision, not a feeling. Eros (romantic love) is not even mentioned in New Testament, only agape is. Jesus took away the right to...

In internet dating women's adds containing just photo/age/location tend to attract lots of already married or already dating men and men looking for 20-40 years younger woman than they them self are. So I'd say the likelihood of finding serious relationship in that 200 contact pile is relatively...

Yeah I'd say the attempt to try lay the blame on that ex is worrying, if he can't remember anything, then he can't really say the ex was more sober, considering that alcohol compromises men's "functionality" more, it could be even possible that he was the more sober side during the intercourse...

"Talking to stars" sounds like idolatry.

Sin causes suffering. Suffering caused by obsession with emotion of "being in love" is not really different from obsession with lust or any emotion. Also people should stop summarizing "being in love" with term love, since I don't think the Bible ever uses word love to describe "being in love"...

A person who says the right things but does the wrong things is a hypocrite. But doing the right thing when you feel not like doing it, keeping doing the right thing until it feels right is part of renewing your mind. There is nothing authentic in feelings, but many Christians seem to confuse...

Maybe butterflies is not really a good term. But the more intense phase of being in love, infatuation, limerence, what ever the correct term, generally goes over in few years. If we look at history and even on present day, the variety of marriage arrangements and the view on love varies...

Sorry if it came out harsh, but I have given advice. Try to change your views of love and happiness, this is the only permanent fix, first with the Bible then with historical, sociological and scientific facts. All of them conflict with the modern romantic view of love. Both happiness and love...

So the "true love" towards this woman who showed you "true love" ended before the relationship and marriage with your present wife? How could it end if it was "true love", either before the relationship or during it? What will you do when you run out of "true love" towards your next wife?

Before 19th century, majority of Christian marriages were arranged marriages. Were they all unhappy? No. They were probably more happy in their marriages than people are in modern day in their marriages. There was no Hollywood and other neo-romantic crap feeding this myth that love is a feeling...

True love is defined in the Corinthians 1:13 it is not a feeling. The greatest reason for divorces nowadays is emotional materialism. Ecclesiastes 5:10 "Whoever loves money never has money enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with his income. This too is meaningless.". Just like this...

Well, religious people give far more to charity too, and are generally much more happy, Arthur C. Brooks got nice statistics on them, so you could say that it helps both helping poor and dealing with poverty if it hits you.

If parents have experienced that their Christianity has helped them greatly in their life then not teaching children Christianity makes as much sense as throwing the children in the pool and telling them to find their own swimming style. Rightly understood Christianity offers great solutions to...

Past affects but it doesn't control the future. Despite of slavery there is less racism towards blacks in America than Europe. There had been shift towards modern racial antisemitism since Enlightenment and quite a few Catholic clergymen died in camps too, and many Christians risked their lives...

Great job at defending Christianity by removing Christ from Christmas and Christmas carols etc... Whether we see Nazism or Communism as secular atheistic movements or as New Age religions that sprouted up due to widespread secularism/atheism to fill the hole really makes no difference at all in...

Napoleon. And considering how French Revolution increased anti-atheism among the established elites of most European countries and that the Origins of the Species was not released until 1859 lack of them is understandable. Believing in some higher forces on 20th century is clear majority...

Anti-semitism term was invented by German atheist anti-semite who wanted to invent more hip term to fit the new secular atheistic attitudes in Germany and to fit more evolution and race theories, contrasted to term anti-Judaism. americanthinker(dot)com/2007/11/the_nazis_and_christianity.html...

Men certainly don't need inappropriate contentography for masturbation. Men don't even need lustful thoughts for masturbation if it isn't daily hobby, just physical stimulus is enough when there is some real pressure. inappropriate content use dulls you, though somewhat slower and different way than sleeping around with...

Seems that atheists are doing better than in wnd numbers but still they are doing worse than national average, though numbers are still probably made prettier by the less principled of the atheists and agnostics never marrying but cohabitating to the end of their relationship or lives their...

You should be able to relieve tensions without inappropriate content just by thinking spouse when masturbating if spouse is not available. Men can actually come just by physical stimulus and without any lustful thoughts if there is enough of "built up tension" so inappropriate content isn't really needed.