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  1. Cavalier83

    Church Camp!

    Hello! Just a few days ago, I volunteered at our denomination’s camp. It’s one that I grew up in, and when the pandemic hit- I wanted to volunteer and give back! Needless to say, it was so much better than I could’ve expected! I haven’t seen God move in such a way in a VERY long time. I...
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    Post-Divorce Relationships (One Year Later)

    I also found out later that her husband left to be with someone else... I’ll just paraphrase and say... they both found their own guy to be with after the marriage dissipated.
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    Post-Divorce Relationships (One Year Later)

    Interesting feedback. It was just a hard lesson to be learned on my part. The only reason I’m bumping it up is to see if there’s more to be said.
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    Working with Non-Believers

    Any advice on the witnessing front? I just know with “Sarah”, eternal life is very much real and as I mentioned in previous posts, I really want to do my part in leading her in the way she should go. All this, while trying to wrestle with my own attractions and anxieties.
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    Working with Non-Believers

    Thanks guys. Through largely my own doing, I feel the impetus of the post may be lost. It’s not so much dating advice. I just want her to find Christ, and am more appreciative of input with that aspect.
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    Working with Non-Believers

    Attractions and feelings aside, any other input on how to be the best witness I can possibly be??
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    Post-Divorce Relationships (One Year Later)

    It actually wasn’t too long ago whenever I wrote to her. I just had to sort my emotions out since I held it in for so long. I hadn’t really expected to hear back, but am still relatively glad I did this! Hey Jacquie I know it has been a year since we last spoke. Even though I don't invest...
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    Post-Divorce Relationships (One Year Later)

    I really don’t disagree. From what I learned, it really wasn’t her own fault her husband kicked her out. He just wanted a new future on his own, which was a bizarre story in and of itself. Im well-aware of the scripture, but didn’t know how it applies if she wasn’t the one initiating the...
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    Post-Divorce Relationships (One Year Later)

    I mainly am curious as to what the feedback here would be... Hopefully, I (and whoever else is on here) can avoid that happening ever again!
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    Working with Non-Believers

    Any advice? I feel the need to live as a witness to her. I just wish I could do more. She does have attractive qualities (we work together well, we’re both driven, she’s beautiful as well). I just know at this phase I can’t act on it. However, I can’t deny the crush itself exists.
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    Working with Non-Believers

    She’s actually single, but will joke about using apps- only to discard the guys she meets. She’s very Covid-conscious, and to my knowledge, had taken time away from the dating scene. On top of that, she could very well be moving elsewhere at the end of the year (nature of the job). I just...
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    Post-Divorce Relationships (One Year Later)

    OK, this is my second and final post of the day. I should’ve come here last year when it was al happening. I’m not so much looking for a solution, but could you guys fill me in on this? Here goes: (Time Lapse to Oct. 2019) I’m not a big fan of dating apps, but I decided to toy around on...
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    Working with Non-Believers

    Hello All! I mainly just come here whenever there is something heavy weighing on my heart. Yes, it’s odd to find it in “Singles,” but there are reasons for that too. I live in a part of the nation that is heavily-Churched, and I have been a part of the faith for about three decades. However...
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    Almost a year since I've been on a date

    I'm really trying to not come off as a psycho ex-bf. Others have said she's not a girl I'd want to date. At first I thought it was impossible, but nothing has been done to prove otherwise.
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    Almost a year since I've been on a date

    It took me about 4-5 months to really get over the breakup. Sometimes, I still am upset at the fact she would just throw me in the trash after I did the best I could for the short time we were together. For instance, on Facebook after she moved, she would bring only post how lonely she was…...
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    Potential for Graduate School

    Greetings! I am just checking to see the potential opportunities for graduate school. I graduated in 2006 with a Bachelor's Degree in Journalism-Broadcast, and have been employed by a local TV station ever since. I really feel as if this is a good time for me to go back to school, but I'm...
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    Almost a year since I've been on a date

    Hello to all! Thursday will mark the one-year anniversary of me being single. If you guys browse the threads we've seen over the summer in a different forum, you'll learn about the circumstances upon which the break-up happened. I thought dating would automatically become easier once I got...
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    Dealing With Bad Breakup

    I'm not finding where I can do that. I clicked on your name, but never saw the option for me to send a PM.
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    Dealing With Bad Breakup

    BlackRibbon, is there any way I can message you? You seem to know a thing or two about this life situation.
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    Dealing With Bad Breakup

    It has been suggested that allowing space helps because it allows the other person to realize how much they miss you. Any truth to this?