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I think you need to pray about your reason for wanting to tell. I left my husband because of his adultery. I face my sons anger and his pulling away from me cause his dad likes to play the "I love you" card to me in front of our son, some in our church look at me as if I am filthy for leaving...

Forgiveness means you have no desire to exact revenge. It does not completely eliminate the pain nor does it always mean reconciliation. A fact that many in the church fail to recognize. I wish my husband love and joy but I do not desire to be back with him. I do not trust him nor do I have...

While it is true that you did exact damage to your marriage via the inappropriate content she is in the wrong for being unfaithful. That was her choice. I left my inappropriate content addicted, unfaithful husband 2.5 yrs ago. He says he has changed and claims the marriage could work if I would forgive. I have forgiven him...

Many times I have been told that I am pretty or beautiful.......when I look in the mirror I don't see that, not at all. And it isn't because my heart is ugly, I truly want to help people and love most everyone-sometimes to my detriment.

Tropical, prior to leaving I checked with a lawyer because I didn't want to be considered abandoning him by leaving the house. We live in a no fault state so they don't care about any of that. He said to start the proceeding he needed $1500!!!!!! I haven't checked with any other place. I...

Left mine due to his infidelity. haven't filed yet as I can barely pay rent let alone pay for divorce. don't regret leaving (been 2.5 years). I thought the marriage was downright awful yet he says he wants reconciliation. I think he just wants to save face as I am his third wife. I get...

You sound so much like my husband that for a moment I thought you were he, except, we were married for 12 years when I left and we have a son. You talk about her knowing or not knowing God. I am saved but my husband still believes if I were I would take him back!!! Doesn't work that...

Preacher's wife....I think the only thing YOU can do is pray for God's will be done. YOU can't possibly know all of the inner workings of their marriage no matter how "honest" they are being with you.

They do not have to be friends on FB to raise children together. I still say we don't know the whole story, we are not even getting it second hand, it's more like third hand and basically gossip since neither party is on here to give their interpretation of their story!

Irregardless of how you feel about the people in your life you need to take your children to a doctor and find out with certainty if they are being raped (molested is a sweet word for such a violent act). IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO PROTECT THOSE CHILDREN. If you think something is happening...

I was raped by my father from the age of 3 until I was 10. If I had a dollar for every time somebody stated that a sex abuse victim grows up to do the same I would be rich. This is the biggest crock of poo I've ever heard. Considering that 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 5 boys have been molested, I...

Lol Hetta......not a hill to die on.....I will have to remember that :)

I think it's a bit different when children are involved. Apologies if my assumption of no children is incorrect.

I'm thinking it looks as though we hijacked this thread and I extend my apologies to the OP~!

Hetta, that quote was in answer to someone else having me google something about being the other woman, which I never was :) She also answered what ITA means :) I guess I am a bit computer lingo illiterate!

I also tried to embrace the ex of my H because they had children together but she was insecure and was worried that her children might love another woman besides her. I think the fact that she and our common husband fought a lot probably contributed to her being ugly towards me. Now she tries...

Hmmm. But. I was married once before when I was very young and we both remarried bringing our spouses into the mix with love and acceptance! My first husband and his wife are more like a brother and sister to me now. We rearranged our thinking to make one big extended family that gets along...

I'm not sure if he would contest or not but we have a business with assets and debts that could get difficult to decipher. I am currently the "residential" parent and do receive a child support but we share our son close to 50/50. I also know that it will get ugly as I am his third wife and he...

EZoo, I can't speak for anyone else but myself so here goes. I am still married, I went to a lawyer when I left my H but they want 1500 down to begin the process, I can barely pay rent let alone pay for a divorce. H doesn't want one so he isn't going to file. I have made it plain as the nose...

We had a wonderful Christian counselor who also helped me find my voice and taught me how to respect myself enough to expect respect from others. I think that without his guidance I could have been the woman the OP is so upset with. Prior to the counseling I was a childhood sexual abuse VICTIM...