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so.......since my last post the silence has been broken to some degree. He picked afight two weeks ago about how I wasn't trying anymore and why should he bother if I don't try. I pointed out to him that he discarded me and didn't want me in his life. My withdrawal was simply me trying to...

To Jimmyl....my husband is currently doing the same to me. Excuses excuses and carries on a happy little life while I am left behind to pick up the pieces. Today...asap.....get the book Love Must Be Tough by James Dobson. There is no guarantee it will save your marriage but it could quite...

He came home on Saturday and agreed to come trick or treating with the girls. Long story short, one of my friends husbands (who knows the situation) gave my husband the cold shoulder. I was upset by it as I did not think it was appropriate. Then I went into my friends house to get a coffee...

p.s what is a recovery team moderator?

I agree with you it just hurts so much to be continually lied to, cheated on and used. I get so frustrated with the fact I have to pick up the pieces with the girls because he is so busy living a life without them. I pray and pray for the hurt to stop and it won't.....I just feel like I am...

ok presto....just keep it real with the answer to this please..... my husband has this weekend off. He has not seen his two girls in 19 days. Instead of coming home friday night like he would ususally do he has told me he will be home Saturday morning. I asked him why not Friday night he said...

My husband has chosen the same path. He has walked out on his family in pursuit of bars, younger women and who knows what else. I am a Christian (as is he) and I believe God first, spouse second, kids third and then everything else. My prayers are with you.

clearly....

are you trying to be "smart"?

underlying issues on my part???? Yes, I missed him when he left and I told him that...he never wanted to support me emotionally on that part. I became jealous when I knew he was "wandering" far from his morals and starting inappropriate relationships. The further he drifted the more jealous I...

Of course there are underlying issues in any divorce or seperation. I do not put the kids in the middle of any of this. Indirectly I am sure they are already being molded. My three year old really has not had a father in her life and it is noticeable when she is around other men. She is afraid...

THank you for praying for me and for my husband. He is long way from God and until he finds God again there is no hope he will find me.

Our marriage problems started last August.....4 months after he started his job away from home. He is 37 however the people that work for him are mostly in the 19-25 year range. He got into the "groove" of the juvenille lifestyle of drinking every night and going to bars with the crew of...

My husband left me 3 weeks ago. We have been trying to hang to, or should I say I have been trying to hang on to the marriage for the past year. He wanted out, I finally stepped out of my denial stage and let him go 3 weeks ago. He works away from home 90% of the time anyway. The separation...

my marriage is very sad at the moment

Above I was asked what I pray for...I pray for whatever God's will is in my life, I will be obedient to that. I pray for happiness and strength to get through whatever it takes to be happy again. That is not selfish. My husband told me yesterday he is not in love with me anymore but doesn't...

just for record my husbands cheating was not a physical affair, it was an emotional attachment to someone else who was very needy. Oddly enough, even through all the issues we dealt with during that difficult time, our sex life never was affected, if anything, it got better.

That is a good thought....I have tried to do that over the past few months. I do get overcome with anger some days. We did have an interesting conversation this weekend though I had been having a very overwhelming week ...he is only home every two weeks for two days...I was missing him...

not really....I go back and forth between wondering if I am just being naive and not wanting to face what could be the truth to I did the right thing. I am so angry all the time. Angry for the dent he has caused in our marriage, angry for the way I handled everything, angry that I can't talk to...

I threw the toothbrush away.....sigh