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    To the bad christians

    Unfortunately you're right, many Christians do have very degraded attitudes about sex. Christians are becoming worldly and buying into the temptations of the devil. There is nothing wrong with sex if it enjoyed in the context in which it was designed. God design sex to be enjoyed by a man and...
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    To the bad christians

    I have a problem. I try to witness to colleagues, friends, and strangers who do not know Christ. A lot of these people see the Christians doing the same thing that they're doing and it makes things much harder for those of us who want to win souls for Christ. I'm convienced that there will be...
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    In online relationships, why the burden has to be on the Woman Moving?

    I know if I was in this situation I would offer to move to her and the reason for that is because of the whole leaving and cleaving issue. She probably has family and friends where she lives and I don't want to take her away for them.
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    To the bad christians

    Jesus died for you and I in one of the most painful ways possible. If that doesn't show love than I don't know what does.
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    To the bad christians

    I use that arguement with people often. I think the stats is 1 out of 5 people in the US has a disease and something like 3 out of 5 people under 25 has something. Also studies show that women who are sexually involved in dating relationships (especially teen girls) have more issues with...
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    SINGLE is NOT a four letter word

    Me, too! Right now I'm trying to live my life and do the things that single people without children get to enjoy! I'm also using the time to work on my habits, attitudes, and other issues in my life that may be preventing God from bringing my wife into my life. In the mean time I have to...
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    What is you dating experience?

    I'm learning to develop friendships at this point with members of BOTH sexes. I've spent a lot of time on the Internet over the last 15 years and never developed the skills. I'm involved in our Singles ministry at church and I hang out with a mix group of people my age on Friday and Saturday...
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    Virginity

    I agree with the advice and I think it is very wise. Our staff at Church also practices those rules. Male staff members don't counsel women unless it is an the open.
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    Virginity

    Before I became a Christian I would've said yes, but now as a Christian I have to say no. It is probably way too easy to move from the "other stuff" to the intercourse so why risk it? How does the Bible define it?
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    Should I Learn PHP or ASP?

    I program in PHP, because we run linux servers and it is free. All new web app development at my company seems to be in PHP and I suspect that they will phase out the ASP pages soon due to the reoccuring license and support fees for Microsoft.
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    I have a date next Saturday

    When you wrote the original message the event hasn't happened yet. How can you be realistic and if you already know the future why bother putting yourself through the pain and trouble of going on a date? It just doesn't make sense to me. Maybe I have the definitions for "realistic" and...
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    Favorite Southeast State

    Actually I looking for a less "rushed" environment to live in. I think the people here in South Florida think I-95 is the Indy 500 or something! You guys will get where you are going faster if you don't crash your cars first! sigh
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    Favorite Southeast State

    I live in Florida, but I want to move to North Carolina. I tried to move to Raleigh in 1999, but never made it and tried to move to Charlotte in 2000, but the job market seem to be bad at the time. I like North Carolina, because you have the seasons (Blue Ridge parkway!!!). You have snow...
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    Florida Roll call

    I live in the Fort Lauderdale area. I live on the Pompano Beach/Fort Lauderdale city line to be exact! :)
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    I have a date next Saturday

    Mr Dude, Just be positive. Although I'm not quite where you are at in life as far as relationships, but I'm God's child and I know he will get me through everything. Before I was a Christian (I've only been one for 5 months) it was not uncommon for me to be negative. I destroyed more...
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    So how many kids do you want single people?

    I would prefer daughters, because they are more emotional.
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    Unattractive people making out well.

    I think as Christians we aren't suppose to use the "world's" standard for judging attractiveness. I'm glad to see that there are people who do realize that inner beauty and personality is important.
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    So how many kids do you want single people?

    Two kids. Hopefully two daughters, but I'll take one of each.
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    I have a date next Saturday

    I should of used other examples that were more relevant. I'm sorry. I'm a very strong believer in the power of thought. I strongly urge you to not waste your energy on thinking that the relationship will fail, because if you do it'll consume your mind and you will be unhappy. It is also very...
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    I have a date next Saturday

    Come to think of it...You're right. From the picture I can't understand why he would have any problems.