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These are all great points!!! Seems I have been doing this for years and not realising it. I do dishes, set the table setup coffee and make sure all is ready for when she starts each meal (she loves to cook). When she goes shopping or is out I am usually doing something around the house to...

Hello Everyone, I do not know where to put this question, so I am starting it here. I am unhappy in my marriage and will even go on record as to say it is all my fault. My question is this. Is it possible to feel happy and follow the proper Christian way? I love felowship with God, I...

Hi Everyone, I am a Christian and there was a time in my life when I enjoyed all the pleasures of Christainity. Now I have fallen, and I don't know where to go. I would like to talk to a pastor if possible because I know what I am supposed to do, but I cannot seem to find the strength to do...

Dumbest idea so far. Last time I checked, soft inappropriate content hardcore inappropriate content or any form of inappropriate content is a bad thing in the sight of God.

WOW. I don't think your spot for Hell has been reserved just yet. Yes, you two need a bucket of water or some distance. You do play a dangerous game and if you are not getting married you might want to tone things done a bit. That one incident was an accident, not planned. Now that you know...

I have a one sided relationship with my wife. Seems little things between couples are too far down on the list. God is at the top and most everything else is somewhere down there. Not that this is a bad thing because God should be everyone's focus, but sometimes it would be nice to get...

It may seem that God is restricting you, but I agree with some of the posts here that he is not. Ok, he did hand us some rules to live by, but do not get caught up in small things in life. You want to go to univ to be a lawyer, go for it. Not all lawyers are shysters. Or what ever you want...

Just wondering here, you must both be single. If you are, then as a guy, your definitions of friend fit just right, assuming there are no romantic links here. Anything else, I probably would still be running the other way...ok, maybe not running, but not really supporting the idea. Just my...

I have read the responses with great interest. I am a beleiver, and though I cannot say that I have had many great bad things happen, life has not been that rosy for me. I have heard so many times by so many people that God does not hear/listen to those that do not obey his word. On this...

Sophia, All I can say is that you are an amazing woman, and I really mean that. You have gone way past the extra mile. I can only imagine how heavy your heart is and that your husband seems to have other things on his mind. Please do not view this as putting you in the "traditional woman"...

Jo, I understand where you are, but please do not think the world is better off without you. This is not a pride thing where I tell you to be so proud of accomplishments, but to be happy with who you are. I know our world has gone to being all about me and there is never someone to listen to...

I will say I am not always honest. I have been married for 18 yrs and I have discovered it is way easier not to rock the boat. Yea yeah, I can hear it now....Be a man, and tell your wife the truth. Truthfully, she has very tolerance for things she does not understand and rarely accepts...

WOW, Sadi Belle, I wish I could actually find the word or words that really feel right now. Proud of you, admiration for you, just dont quite say it. I am really impressed. You never presented yourself as weak or powerful, just a woman with a need. So human, I wish more people could be so...

Dude, are you asking to be shot, stoned or publicly hanged? Unless I missed the turn at Alberquerque this IS a Christian Forum, not a place for tips how to pick up young chicks

Jenny, I can understand where you are coming from. I don't know if things have changed since you first wrote this, but I hope so. I know how it must feel to see and hear everyone laughing and so happy that Christ is the reason they have such a fulfilling life. All I can ask is to have a...

My dear I have to agree, you are being abused. For all the instances you have related and probably more you never mentioned most men Christian or not would not do. A Christian man would never treat his wife in that manner. I am no saint, but I could never treat any woman like that and it...

My wife has been saved, baptised the whole bit. I was brought up in a Christian home, learned to love and respect God, done everything except baptise. We go to different churches, but every Sunday we pay our respects. My discomfort is this. I am happy with the way my spiritual life is. I am not...

I am quite new, with very little experience, but I just need to ask. Your wife / husband should be your soulmate in an ideal situation, but i reality it is rare. From what I know, a soulmate is someone you are not afraid to be vulnerable to. Jesus is the perfect soulmate. Unfortunately we do...

Ok, see I agree with 247j. God did give us men this ability to be aroused by His most beautiful creation. Not being aroused would be a problem. I do not think the feelings should be controlled, but any actions planned based on these thoughts should be. Normal human being reacting to a normal...

WOW, that is quite a statement!!! I am sorry, but sex is more than just an act. If that was it it was, then everyone would do it with anyone they pleased. Sorry but I think it is and should be treated as something much more personal. Why do people flip out when this act is shared with...