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Short answer, no. You're sin should not bind you to your BF. You've been forgiven. You've repented. The slate is clean with God. If you stay with him it should be because you believe it's a good decision for you. If you're looking for marriage ask yourself if this is the kind of man you want to...

I'm sorry you are hurting. I pray God guides your relationship to the place he has planned for you both. I pray he gives you his perfect peace and strengthens your trust in him. Are things going better?

+1 Spunkn said it all :)

What is your question? What should you do? You should stop cheating on your wife. You should find a Christian pastor/counselor or the like and get help. I doubt we need any more of the information you wish to share, for what purpose? You are a Christian, you do not have to live like this. You...

My opinion is that this 'new age crap' is not crap...You like like traditional. Others like contemporary. Both are valid choices. God made variety in his Body for a reason. I've never been to a super formal church. My favorite church was a historic black Methodist church in DC. Great message...

I AM edifying other by letting them know a person can be gay and a real Christian This statement is what I mean about proving something. I'm not taking about proving anything to the forum. The topic is your church experience, and that is what I am referring to.... So you call yourself a...

Golly. I think I see where you are coming from. So you are gay, you believe it's ok with God, but not if you live a gay lifestyle? What are you proving? That you can have gay desires but be saved if you don't act on them?

What is garbage? I asked for clarification of why you say contradictory things. This is your thread, under the label of 'seeking help'. I assume you actually want advice. Or are you just here to vent or find someone to say what you want to hear?

To say you want to please God with your sexuality, by forsaking your homosexual thoughts and desires, and then to turn around and demand to be accepted and recognized as a gay Christian is contradictory. Do you want to be gay? You don't act on your urges. You don't want to act on this...

I would advise you to reevaluate and reconsider your stance of flirtation. How do you flirt? What is your intention by flirting? What is the goal? Is your motive and actions pleasing to God? Should you be flirting with a man you know nothing about? Should you behave in a manner that could cross...

If you chose 10% because that is what you feel cheerful to give (and not out of a sense of religious obligation) than you are the one who decides how to determine what 10% means.

If you believe homosexuality is a sin, and you do not entertain such thoughts or act on them, why do you identify yourself as gay? What is it that makes you gay? I don't understand.

Wow, what an immature coward :(

It was not long ago you were excited about marrying this man. Have ya'll sat down with a pastor or premarital counsel? As K9_Trainer said, you've invested a lot of time. Can this possibly be saved? I'm still not sure why you won't pick the phone up and call this man. Why is text and email...

I would examine my motive for confessing this. Is your motive to cleanse your own conscience? Do you believe it's the right thing for your spouse? What I don't think you should not do is dump your sin on your wife to make yourself feel better. I don't know the right answer but I wonder if it...

I can't tell you what blaspheming the Holy Spirit, the only unforgivable sin, looks like. I can tell you what kinds of sinners have received God's forgiveness though. Paul persecuted and murdered believers, he hated the Way. Look who Paul became. David was a man after God's own heart, plus an...

How you do deal with a BF with a temper who is unforgiving and unable to let things go? You walk away. You don't have time for this. These are poor quality character traits for a "Christian" man, and marriage prospect. Is this truly God's best for you? It sounds like a recipe for a hellish...

If you haven't heard from him in two days, have you called him at all?

It's hard not to get sucked into new relationships, they are so exciting! Perhaps the advice of a wise older believer from church, or a book such as "Boy Meets Girl" by Joshua Harris would be helpful.

When you turn down premarital sex (or the situations that will open the door for him to try to bed you) he walks away from you. Demand more respect than this shmuck is giving you. This man loves himself more than you, and wants you to put his sexual urges before God himself, and has stated as...