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Man: guilt,guilt,depression,conviction Man: seeks help,he wants to change away from shame Man: finally confesses to his girlfriend,he's addicted to inappropriate content Woman: hiding her hurt,she says she'll pray for him Woman: loses some respect,it's hard to stay with him Question: Can...

You are in a church with a pastor who has been at the helm,with solid growth/outreach for about a decade now. Two months ago he tendered his resignation and a board member received it before the congregation after an abbreviated sermon. It's come out that he has been having an affair for two...

Went over to see my sons at home of the ex-wife. Things were cool with them until I spoke with her in the LR. Then she started puking from the bile in her soul,a place of icky tar,demeaning mean and rejecting. I have never encountered a darker soul in my life. Since our marriage ended out...

...as in gender earth occupation. What would the world be like if there were only women? Only men? Other than sex,what does men and women offer each other? What word would describe a world with one gender?

I love the series Naked and Afraid,the dynamics of the couple's interaction,their overcoming with survival techniques and stamina. How many of you,assuming you were fit with survival skills,would be at ease walking up to an unknown person of opposite gender totally naked? Do you think it...

Out of sheer curiosity I wondered if the answer to this question would lead to a bias: If you could come back as a boy or a girl which would you choose? Feel free to elaborate.

Do you have one? Have you ever had one? I have one and it makes me soooo ashamed. I'm in my 50s and this gal is 18. She helps out with the worship team playing her violin. She's pretty,feminine,a true Christian,attending a Christian college. The first time I saw her I had this love-awe pit...

Think upon this: Gals,what is the most intriguing question you would like answered about guys? Guys,what is the most intriguing question you would like answered about gals? Have fun.

Yes,touching the genders male-female way,not sexual. How many of you,especially those who've been married or had a long term relationship,miss that skin-on-skin experience. I find myself so parched and welcoming to benefit from the caresses that occur during the day. Anyone else like that...

This comes from work on the preoptic center of the brain near the hypothalamus: "The hypothalamus controls some of the basic functions of life including hormonal activity via the pituitary gland. There are several gender differences in the gland present between males and females. Some of...

I'd like to ask for curiosity what it is in a woman's mind that attracts them to men. Women are soft,clean,careful,with decorum hooking up with these deep-throated rough hairy men. I know I'm on thin ice to try to explore a woman's mind. But once you gals looked at us loud boistrous muddy boys...

I like Mature Singles,it's the place on CF that I feel most at home,and find people that can give rational answers. However,I doubt this will help. I have a mental problem which manifests itself most on Sunday nights and guess what tonight is? The problem--My heart can't find it's freedom from...

I pose a question to meet the inquisitive in me. It's a theoretical one so all can jump on. I've noticed in life,and in Christian discourse here,and in many secular writings that sex is a preoccupation more of men than women. I believe that--men struggle more with lust,mb,addictions in...

I have this compressed nugget in my brain such that when my hand goes to message someone on Plenty of Fish it freezes. That nugget is a reluctant residue of affection for my ex-wife.(Can't return,sorry,long story) The bite is(and I don't know why) but my sex-drive is back with a passion. I...

I'm in my late 50s after being divorced 4 years ago. I'm lonely and wanting to go out BUT my question--can love be had at my age where you're close,intimate,sexual,spiritual soulmates? Or is it too late not being able to build up memories over all the years. I find myself ambivalent...

Ok, for the faint-hearted leave right now! But today, I don't know if the planets were arranged particularly, the heat got to me, excited about a new job coming up but....my sex drive was SO high today! Almost anxiety, like my teenage years when I dwelt a lot about all things sexual(as did my...

They say Jodi Arias has empty dark eyes; rather lifeless. In studies of the brain there are weak striations in the brain matter between the amygdala(fear center) to the prefontal cortex(reasoning). These people exist without the ability to love or have empathy for others. My questions: Are...

I'm sure most on these threads feel negative about inappropriate content, especially how it affects marriage. I am curious WHY you feel negative toward it? I'm looking for something deeper than "the Bible says" or "It's just disgusting" etc. Personally, I am a Christian, view inappropriate content on occasion for about 5 min...

And what advise do you seek, as this is an advice board?

I go to what appears to be a "seeker" church of 1,000+ people. We have contemporary worship, warm sermon, gifts of free toys and car-washes to community, four services, a pastor who is nearly unattainable, literally NO Christian education. We've been in this church for about 12 years and I...