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    Is being pessimistic wrong?

    DO unto others as you would have done unto you. Don't bash your hubs ideas. And tell your mom some random lady on the cf site tells her to stop being a punk and be supportive every once in a while. It's not the end of the world that the daughter has something exciting happening!
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    What rules do you and your spouse have?

    We ask each other if we can buy things I give three warnings to please take out the trash or it ends up in his car. I do house cleaning, especially when he has friends over. If he picks a zombie movie, we WILL be watching a comedy afterwards. If I pick a chick flick, we will be watching...
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    KNOW You are saved.

    Got it. So here is an add on to my question then. Say that you are still trying your absolute best to play your part, but you don't feel his presence and you start to question if you are areally saved. Is there a way to "test" yourself?
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    KNOW You are saved.

    I'll try not to let it drive me crazy. I just hope I'm saved and I wish I knew. Sad.
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    KNOW You are saved.

    Thanks again for the response. Again, I've read the Bible and continually do so. Have just read a few things that you have posted. I understand that reading it and believing it is true answers my question but again. Do I just think that the Bible is true, or do I really believe it? LOL, and...
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    KNOW You are saved.

    first i would like to say thank you for talking through this with me. I know I didn't sound appreciative before. I am struggling with knowing whether or not I am saved because I am wondering if I have mentally tricked myself into thinking I'm a Christian. I think I'm destined for hell because...
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    KNOW You are saved.

    From cover to cover? Not sure. I know at least twice. I'm sorry, I'm not being clear. I guess I'll start over... Here is my new question: how do you know you are saved?
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    KNOW You are saved.

    Thanks. I read through it. That is something I have been taught since I was young as well. So it's not really that I feel my actions make my relationship with God, it's more a heart issue. How can I tell if I'm saved or not? I feel as though I think "well yes, Jesus died for my sins" and...
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    KNOW You are saved.

    thank you.
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    KNOW You are saved.

    I mean "saved" as in going to Heaven because you have been accepted by Jesus and you have accepted Him. Again, I don't believe people can become "unsaved". Everybody goes through "rough" times in their relationship with God. How do you know you are saved during those times and you weren't...
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    KNOW You are saved.

    Sorry, My first response was not for your post, it was for the post above it. I didn't get those things from you. I asked you "so people don't know they are saved?"
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    KNOW You are saved.

    So people don't have any idea if they are saved or not?
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    KNOW You are saved.

    You didn't answer my questions at all you just got stuck on the "you can lose salvation" bit. I don't believe that. I'm not catholic. And I wasn't asking if you can lose your salvation. I was asking how do you know you are saved.
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    KNOW You are saved.

    How do you know you are saved? Not what do you do to have it shown to you (reading the Bible, praying, because I understand all this) but in those moments when you feel utterly alone and don't feel as if God has accepted me at all, how do I KNOW I'm saved? When my faith is that weak, where can...
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    why is relationships/marriage more important than work or school?

    Hey, my sister in law is 30 something and the top of a big medical company. She's single and loving life. I'm 20 married and out of college as fast as I could. I get more complaints about my life, so I guess I ask the opposite question sometimes. Who cares what people question about...
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    Not a big deal, but because of me...

    I came to work sick today and came home after an hour or so of being there. I felt symptoms of the stomach flu but came home with no vomitting/diahrea... anyway, one of the ladies I work closely with is pregnant. I'll heal, I just thought if someone would pray real quick that I didn't get her...
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    First Christmas

    the ford escort, great car... lol, we have one, but we aren't allowed to have real trees in our apartment, so we have a small plastic tree from my grandma. We already bought each other presents... lol, when we have a little extra we sometimes say "This'll be my christmas present!" lol. So this...
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    First Christmas

    I got married 2 days before Christmas, we spent it with all the family that came to the wedding. It wasn't that special, I mean, in ways it was, but you know, we were still getting over the "I can't believe I just got married" phase. lol. We got married during that season though, which proves...
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    Inexpensive yet thoughful Christmas gifts

    A cheap teddy bear. I got a 5 dollar one for valentines day and now, every once in a while my husband pulls it out and has it talk to me... cute and silly.
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    Chores around the house

    I don't have kids, but I'm married to a 21 year old, does that count as having kids? 'Cause I feel like I have to clean up after him quite a bit. LOL. He is a busy student though so I'm okay with doing what I can... I refuse to get gas and kill bugs though.