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    "Friends"

    With all of my "friends", I dont ever seem to hear from them except when they need a favor or want to talk to me about a problem...other than that, I never hear from them. This to me doesn't seem like friendship. When I need someone to talk to, none of my "friends" are available. Advice??
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    Joining a College Fraternity/ Sorority a Sin?

    Is anything wrong with joining a college sorority or fraternity? I was having this discussion a few days ago with some friends. Of course I may be slightly biased though?:P
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    Mate and Mom dont get along

    Unfortunately, my mother and my fiancee do not get along at all. I'm beginning to think that marriage is certainly out of the question...Everytime him and my mother are around each other there is a huge fight between them and I am caught in the middle. They argue so much, rude to each other and...
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    NO Romance

    I have the most unromantic fiancee ever in life! :( He never does anything sweet, no cards, no emails, no presents / no surprises not even for holidays. The only romantic thing that he has ever done was take my garbage out and hold the door open. Ive asked him to be more romantic, but he is...
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    My Dear Friend

    My good friend had a baby 2 years ago with a married man in the army. Now the man and his wife are filing for full custody of my friend's little boy. My friend takes care of her son (with the help of government assistance) and she loves the little boy dearly. However; the dad is financially...
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    Going to Strip Clubs, Ungodly?

    Some friends and I were having the discussion with one of our mutual friends telling her that going to a strip club probably wouldnt be in her best interest, since she has rededicated her life to the Lord. However, she thinks that there is nothing wrong with going.
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    Having Expensive "Taste" a Sin

    I love to shop! (What female doesn't?:P) My friend just recently quit talking to me because she says that I spend too much money on clothes, shoes, purses and some restaurants (Its not even that much money in reality). What is it any of her business? I live alone, I am in grad school and my...
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    Cousin and her "Minister" Husband

    My cousin has been married for 3 years to this "minister". The guy is a lowlife and she knew it from the beginning, but I guess she thought that she could change him. Well she attended his church b4 she married him and had divorced his other 2 wives which whom he used to beat and the church...
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    Holidays

    This holiday season, my fiance' and his family are having Thanksgiving dinner with my immediate family. My mom really doesnt like him and she is embarrased that I am with him because he is "from the other side of the tracks." He has never been arrested and he is a college grad and about to begin...
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    What do I need to pack?

    I am 31 weeks pregnant and I know I may be getting things together kind of early, but I was wanting to know what to pack for myself and my baby to bring to the hospital?
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    Sometimes hiring family members isnt the best

    Well my mom owns a business. Her sister (my aunt) has been working for her for about 5 years. Everyone in the office has endured my Aunt's smart mouth for all those years but my mom has kept her around so that she can have a job. My aunt had cancer 10 years ago and is considered high risk so she...
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    Mother wants me to be a single mom

    I am a single mom-to-be in the sense that I am not yet married, but engaged to my child's father. However; it is my mother's wish that he would disappear, simply because she doesn't and has never wanted me to be married. She becomes infuriated when he is around and then she starts preaching to...
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    Whn did you start Showing?

    I know I should be ecstatic that I am not showing, but I am almost 5 1/2 months along and my stomach looks exactly the same pre-pregnancy. When I go and buy baby clothes, I am always asked, " Who are you buying clothes for?" or "How many months old is your baby?" My response, "She hasn't been...
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    BF meeting mom

    Oh Goodness, my boyfriend met my mom for the first time today. My mom cooked dinner and he came over. My family is a traditional, church going family and he wasn't raised that way and had a somewhat troublesome childhood after his parents divorced. My mom had sat the table and the food and by...
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    Going to Night Clubs a Sin / Unholy?

    As a Christian, personally I choose not to go to clubs / parties where I know that things take place that are not conducive to the Holy Spirit. I just don't feel comfortable. Some of my friends tell me that I can be saved and still go, but as I have said that is not what I feel personally that...
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    The Truth can Backfire

    I was talking to what is now my former friend about furthering her education. She states, " I am going to find a job, work for 2 months and they are going to give me over a hundred grand to go to medical school." I simply explained the economic situation and told her to have a plan B just in...
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    Dealing with Opposition

    I know in this lifetime that people will not always agree with with you and that is fine because everyone has the right to their God-given opinion, but How do you deal with constant warring, combative, witchcraft, judgemental spirits? For example, My friend her parents are always getting...
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    How Soon?

    How soon after delivery should I wait to put my baby in daycare?
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    Stress during Pregnancy

    So my family is not supportive of my boyfriend and I's first child. It was a very unplanned pregnancy, but it's happened and there is no looking back now. My boyfriend is still out of state finishing up with college. Its hard to deal with, when I'm used to having the support of my family. I'm...
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    Truly Forgiven?

    For those of you who have read my forced abortion thread, I'm glad that my mom had a change of heart with that, but I pay for it everyday (my mother is supposedly a pastor) I constantly hear that I look bad / dead, my child will be retarded (she was just being hurtful), I am an embarassment...