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Sorry... Avoid her and speak to parents, friends, or a consoler.

******* You are thoughtful, +, constructive, & loving. I hope your husband recovers.

What pain, sorry.........

Please see a consoler. There are multiple injuries, & you have been damaged in the past. You are patient, resilient, and well written. Sorry for your anguish............

You may want to speak to a Dr. about medication AND find a Christian psychologist. Meds will chemically move your neurotransmitters toward normal. Working with a Christian psychologist will teach you tactics/steps to manage anxiety. Christian psychologists tie therapy to Gods word. Success...

So sorry to hear. You are a good board supporter.

DaveW, So you are saying someone, a pastor, established a "program" to remove the sexual desires GOD created. That would be worse, IMHO, than the sin. That is wrong. God created those desires for a purpose. We have to struggle to abstain until married. Like struggle to abstain from...

You are very thoughtful and literate. This may be one of the most thoughtful & balanced inquiries I have ever read. NO ONE IS BORN TO BE MARRIED world lie #1 YOU DO NOT COMPLETE HER, NORE SHE YOU Jerry McGuire lie I suggest you ask a friend for a book on marriage, ask your wife to attend a...

Sorry... to hear. I hope you are working on changing this. Marriage without sex, often leads to sex without marriage.

I was in that situation more than once :-( Soyeong has good advice. Once you engage in intercourse, it is very hard to stop. Make sure you listen, share, and pray over this.

Please be patient with your self. So it is taking you longer to get your degree and certifications. Professional skills, experience, character, industry, and subject matter expertise are more important. Start today, if you have not already improving reading, writing, and speaking skills...

*** We are all damaged goods and with Christ's sacrifice, whole again. It sounds like you carry much pain, and important people in your life are very judgmental to the point of hurting you. Your conversation was self harming and circular in my opinion. God does not make junk. Please see a...

Thank you for your encouragement :-)

Does anyone have tips navigating a wife's stress due to a husbands job loss? She has always been a huge worrier and over-analyzer. I was laid-off for the 3rd time in 15 years. We can cover living expenses with her salary, and she has good benefits. We can pay the mortgage off with a check...

Please bring it up to him. Spare the details, but share you know he had an affair. Ask what his understanding of this is and how it affects the both of you? If I happens again, seek counseling and separation. If a third time, you may consider separation again or divorce. This is a big sin...

Leo When sex is in a healthy marriage it is excitement, pleasure, connection, & joy all rolled into one. When a couple is looking forward to the; intimacy, foreplay, and its climax is amazing. It has a melody of pleasure before, during, and after. Mind body and soul should be it a happy...

Did you discuss your sexual interests as marrieds? Preferences, frequency, etc? Any change? Has there been a marital change since the wedding? Are you close personally? Could he be engaged with inappropriate content, sorry have to ask. Has he undergone a physical change since wedding; medical condition...

Very well said... I agree, and like your verses. God wants us to go to him willingly.

I repeat the serenity prayer,,, God grant me...