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    my husband or my kids? how to choose

    The oldest should be given a deadline of 1 month to find a job and 2 months to find his own apartment. The younger son, if he's still in school, should be given specific responsibilities around the home with consequences if he does not comply. He should be served notice that he will be...
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    Spouse's Body Language

    "When my spouse starts rubbing his head behind his right ear while driving, that means that he is very tired and I better drive."
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    Am I being paranoid?

    Perhaps he cleaned up for you.
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    Insecurity and the ex wife - Question for the remarried women here.

    I have found it to be true that whenever anyone is obsessed with thoughts about another that involve insecurity and jealousy, the issue is unforgiveness. The cure is forgiveness -- releasing them from whatever debt you think or feel they owe -- letting go of whatever you think or feel they took...
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    at a loss

    I've taken the time to read a lot more of this relationship drama than just this thread. From what I've read of both Robalan's and Freesha's posts I have to agree with Surrendered1. "This is a disaster in the making." There are too many red flags in this relationship for either of you to even...