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  1. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    Actually I think I want to delete ALL my posts going back a few years. Nothing good on there anyway.
  2. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    where do I find a admin
  3. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    How do I delete this thread?
  4. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    I’m going to give you a metaphor. Let’s say you work in a grocery store. And I come into your store and fill my cart with fruits and veggies. Then i decide since I’ve gotten a healthy shopping list, I would like one treat. So I go in the candy aisle. You happen to be the employee working in the...
  5. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    I need to lead a healthy balanced life . This means that yes I need to address the issues and get counseling and talk with my husband until he feels better about stuff Work on a budget and read about baby and all of that ... But it also means I need rest . I need to enjoy what I have for...
  6. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    I am pregnant after all ‍♀️ So yeah like very moody and a lot of things upset me .... including all of this berating.
  7. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    I AM doing those things sheesh
  8. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    so what do you suggest? sit out in the rain and feel sorry for myself? lol
  9. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    They told me I could bring someone. They all bring their whole families (because they have kids).
  10. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    Yeah I don't think of it as sweeping it under the rug because behind closed doors he and I do discuss it for the purposes of working through it. I look at it more like moving forward. Closing a chapter. Forgiving but not forgetting... I remember what happened. But I don't feel like it's healthy...
  11. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    I do get counseling. And don't get me wrong, I'm not just trying to make myself look good so people will be my friend. I'd like to make more friends and be respected by more people yes. And yes, I am aware I have to act respectable to get to that point. But I also was thinking that I wanted a...
  12. bluegreysky

    Open for Summer Reading Suggestions!

    LOL the whole entire bible? isn't there like some specific parts that would be most beneficial to me though? not that "who begat who" isn't interesting....
  13. bluegreysky

    Open for Summer Reading Suggestions!

    I've posted topics about books before, based on what was going on in my life at the time. This summer, the topics are as follows: -Books about becoming a mother -Books about being a Godly wife -Books about healing in a marriage -Books about Godly parenting Send me your suggestions... They...
  14. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    BECAUSE IM A WEIRDO DUHHHHHH I mean... don't believe me look at my profile pic haha
  15. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    Actually... that wasn't the last time no. That was just my one time with an opposite-sex friend. I made some girlfriends last year, too. Four or five, two are still with me now. They have great qualities and are caring, but they are also single and partying a lot (at least one of them does...
  16. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    Well, Facebook was just a tool in all this. I knew her in person while she lived here. I even had to go into her home sometimes because she would host the small group when the other couple was out of town. Her life was EXACTLY like her Facebook.... full of skillful photos of happy times (shes a...
  17. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    I don't know. I'm torn between wanting to be my best self for the sake of being my best self and wanting to be my best self so more people will be drawn to me and I make friends.
  18. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    well that's why I quit the second job. Because I needed weekends (and also the evenings on the weekdays) at home and my husband was a big part of that. I just look at her old facebook posts and I see how many people love and adore her and I know that she was a brag but she was genuinely trying...
  19. bluegreysky

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    Would you consider Joanna Gaines to be a good example?
  20. bluegreysky

    The arch-nemesis

    I know that title sounds childish. Probably because it is, and I know it. maybe 5 or 6 years ago, in a different branch of the forum (maybe singles or advice) I wrote a long, ranting, bitter tirade about a girl I hate. I wrote about rediculous things she did that annoyed me. I wrote about why I...