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    Our Friendship Was A Lie

    I've decided to cut off a fake friend, and am still sad over what I thought our friendship WAS. I'm new in the military, and have moved to my first unit overseas. I'm pretty quiet, so when this guy seemed like he wanted to be my friend, I was open. But now, after a couple months I no longer...
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    God May Be Leading Me To Marry This Man, But He's Not What I Expected Or Wanted. HELP

    I met Reynold* six weeks ago. We talked. It was nice. Soon thereafter, he told me that he enjoyed our conversation and that he liked me a lot. We kept talking. About a month later, we were watching tv when suddenly his eyes widened and his skin got very pale, like he'd had seen a ghost! He...
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    Does This Sound Like It's From God?

    Hi, I bought a book to help me hear God's voice, and it recommends having people read what you heard to reassure if it's Him or not. The blue is what I think I heard from Him. Here's the conversation: God, why did you make my hair like this? "Why do you not like your hair?" (I tell...
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    Having Second Thoughts On My Boyfriend: HELP!

    I'm very grateful to any of you who give me advice! In short, I've been talking to 2 guys: "Damon" and "Khalil". 3 days ago, I agreed to be Damon's girlfriend, but now I'm having second thoughts an am unsure why. I'm unsure if I made a mistake, or if I have "grass is greener syndrome". Ok...
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    Does This Sound Like What God Would Say?

    I'm unsure if this is God's answer, or me, PROJECTING what I feel He'd say. I found an opening for a close-by, salaried position in my field. I asked God if I put in the application and did the work, would He give me the job. And I felt this answer: "You need to spend more time with Me...
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    Should I Break Up With Him? (Men's Advice Needed)

    Thank you for reading. Im unsure if my boyfriend likes his female friend (FF), or if it's only my jealousy. He's known her for at least 6-12 months, but since they're from different countries they've never met face to face. Til school started. About 1 month after school started, we met...
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    How Do You Reprogram Your Mind With God's Word?

    I have bad self esteem, and doubt God's love and acceptance of me. I know the verses that say that God values us and loves us, but it just doesnt sink inside my mind. How do you reprogram your mind to believe what God says about you?
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    Car Broken Into--Please Pray

    Just found out that my mother's car got broken into. The guy stole her purse and took her money, credit cards, and IDs. Please pray. Please pray that the police actually help us, instead of talking about it. Please pray the credit card companies work with us. Please pray that peace will be...
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    How Can You Tell God's Will On An Issue Thats Silent In the Bible?

    How can you tell God's will on an unorthodox issue that's not specifically talked about in Scripture? I have a friend who wants me to join him in something. When he explains his reasonings, I feel in my spirit that he's telling the truth. However, I feel extremely uncomfortable with it. And...
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    How Can You Tell Between Truth and Lies With Some Truth In Them?

    How can you tell when someone's speaking full truth, and when they're speaking lies with some truth thrown in? (To me, the second is more deceptive, especially when their seems to be sturdy reasoning.) I know that Biblical truth will be supported by Scripture. But then again, Satan used...
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    Any Married, Christian Couples From Different Denominations?

    Hi, I'd love to hear from any married couples who are from different denominations. How did you work this out? As for me, both my boyfriend and I are Christians but are from different denominations. My boyfriend is an awesome man of God, with the fruit of the spirit POURING out of his life...
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    Who Else Is In A Relationship With Someone From a Different Culture?

    Hi, My boyfriend and I are both Christians, but we come from two different cultures. I'm American. He's from Cameroon, Africa. He's been in the States for a little over four years. He's adapted a lot of American culture. In turn, I'm learning more about his culture, and his previous and...
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    Job Offer Before Graduation

    Hi, Thanks for reading my prayer request. I'd really appreciate prayer for employment. Ive been looking for full-time employment for a while. I applied to 3 more jobs yesterday. Please pray that God gives me a job offer before I graduate in 3 weeks. It'd mean EVERYTHING to me :)
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    Ever Feel Like God Couldnt Love You?

    I do. And I hope someone can understand what I"m saying. Intellectually and scripturally I know He does. But at a heart-level, I don't think He does love me: Because I've been so stubborn and backwards, and faithless. For anyone who's overcome a similar circumstance, what did you do?
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    How many is "too many" partners?

    How many sexual partners do you personally consider too many? This thread is just out of curiousity. From the "Would You Marry Someoe with a High Number of Partners?" thread.
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    What Advice Would You Give to Someone Who Received Tongues?

    I want to practice tongues more to help my spiritual walk. But, sometimes, I get discouraged because I don't know what I'm saying or if its about what I was first praying. My question is: what advice would you give to someone who wants to use this gift more? (PS: this...
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    Please pray that God helps transform me.

    I need to change my life and obey Jesus.I want to do something dramatic--to leave my old spiritual life behind (something besides just repenting, but something I can do repeatedly). My disobedience and hard-heartedness has all but killed me spiritually. By God's grace, He's still allowed me...
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    How Do I Know If I'm Trying To Grow Spiritually, Without Trusting God?

    Hi, God's told me that my past attempts to get closer to Him fail because "I keep trying to do it without Him". It's tricky: When I'm doing something "spiritual", it doesn't feel like I'm still distrusting Christ. Until hindsight shows me. I want a real relationship with God, and He's told me...
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    NonChristian? I Want to Understand Why You Believe What You Believe

    Hi :wave: Thank you everyone who took the time to answer my questions. Its a big help. I'm happy with the results of this interview, :thumbsup: ---Interview Closed--
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    Please pray for me.

    I know I could post this elsewhere: but I like the community here instead. Please pray for me :(