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  1. Neve

    What's on your mind?

    I know I should unfriend him on Facebook. But I can't. Not yet.
  2. Neve

    What's on your mind?

    I know I need to keep going, no matter what. It's been a hard week...the last few days...J. I know in my heart I can never see J again. Not after what happened. I need to focus on the things ahead, not the things behind me. What's done is done.
  3. Neve

    What's on your mind?

    It's odd how everything comes full circle. But the circle has yet to close. I'm praying that everything will fall into place sooner rather than later. And not just for me, but for her. She needs it more than me.
  4. Neve

    Rejection

    Ditto. Women tend to idolize crushes as well (particularly young women - including me in the past). It's only human.
  5. Neve

    Marriage to a christian man

    Don't be his green card to America. Run as fast as you can. Him being with someone else for 11 years (even due to his parental obligation) and not contacting you for years at a time does not exactly paint a picture of a man in love.
  6. Neve

    Rejection

    Don't be taken in by the fantasy, don't put crushes up on a glass pedestal.
  7. Neve

    Rejection

    Sometimes rejection can be a blessing in disguise because it makes you embrace what you actually have. Getting rejected by a "crush" can be a blessing because the crush is just a fantasy, it's not reality. Rejection can make you feel grateful for the people you have in your life.
  8. Neve

    What say you forum: Should I mend fences with my ex-friend?

    This. Life has a way of sorting itself out if you give it time.
  9. Neve

    Dating after 30

    This is my hope as I approach my 28th birthday.
  10. Neve

    What's on your mind? (103)

    So Friday is the day that I will be getting my life back on track.
  11. Neve

    Is there something more?

    His feelings aren't likely to be as deep as yours if he hasn't initiated personal contact with you. I guess you could try to rope him in, but be prepared for the outcome.
  12. Neve

    What's on your mind? (103)

    I'm so tired....sigh.
  13. Neve

    Women Longings?

    Three seem realistic to me: 1) escape reality 2) to be cherished by a man 3) to be physically alive I don't feel the need to be protected by or rescue a man.
  14. Neve

    I am feeling very discouraged. Need help.

    I think you just answered your own question...his cynical attitude that he's settling for a "Mary Madgalene" is the problem. His Virgin Mary standards are unreasonable and I would bet his attitude toward "un-pure women" shines through in his interaction with females.
  15. Neve

    I am feeling very discouraged. Need help.

    His standard for wanting a Christian wife is reasonable - the problem lies in what he seeks in a Christian wife and his attitude toward "Christian ladies."
  16. Neve

    I am feeling very discouraged. Need help.

    More judgment and entitlement: Although I would say that his attitude toward all the "Christian ladies" is what is holding him back from finding "The One." He acts as if he's settling for a Mary Magdalene whenever he speaks about his "Christian ladies" when he really wants a Virgin Mary.
  17. Neve

    I am feeling very discouraged. Need help.

    I highlighted and underlined the passages demonstrating his judgmental attitude and sense of entitlement:
  18. Neve

    I am feeling very discouraged. Need help.

    I think the OP - CCHIPS - is overthinking everything with all these "tests". I would love to tell you the world is black and white, cut and dry, that you will meet a nice virgin Christian lady if you live a godly lifestyle and then your sex life will be fabulous and you will be the breadwinner...
  19. Neve

    What's on your mind? (103)

    Watching True Blood series on Amazon Prime. It's completely relaxing from the chaos of daily life - my family, my job. I've known this for awhile, but J and I aren't compatible...and compatibility isn't something that can be forced. The "spark" is either there or it's not. I do feel chemistry...