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    Miller Time... bad or okay

    As it has been said before, moderation
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    Old Flames

    I never really had a reason to destroy stuff given to me or that were reminders of old relationships because I never had a big fall out with any of my ex's. I cared for them enough to get into a relationship with them in the first place, and even though I've fallen out of contact with them, I...
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    Long-Distance Advice

    I suggest traditional correspondance, you know snail mail. That comes with the benefit of giving you guys something physical form one another, something to reread when you are feeling lonly. Other than that, be happy for her.
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    End of Poverty and Bono

    I want to tell you a story. I was raised by a single parent. My mother always wanted to have two children, a boy and a girl. The whole being single thing was a barrier to that. Logical response to that, adopt. My mother: I would like to adopt a child Gov’ment: no Mother: Why not...
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    Fear of Commitment

    It sounds like you have they type of marraige that make you both more fruitful. Thats the mark to aim for. My girl friend and i don't really share hobbies, but she respects and supports them even tough she doesn't think of them as "fun". Being married may be similar for you. You may loose...
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    Acceptable age gaps

    No harm can come from waiting. If she's the one God planned for you, she won't be that easy to shake. It also gives you time to craft a strong friendship before you get in a relationship. That produces a strong foundation for you to build upon.
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    Is Petting a Sin? What Does the Bible Say?

    Keep in mind the law of diminishing returns. You will not be as satisfied by "petting" and things will increase. Not even broaching the subject of purity, what starts small over time will snowball. This is unavoidable. The best defense is remain above reproach, don't give yourself the chance...
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    marriage, sex, contraception

    A child that arrives when the parent(s) is unprepared could be detrimental to god's plan. Now any who are familiar with the Song of Solomon are familiar that God created sex to be enjoyed by the couple. As far as contreceptives go, I personaly believe that the raw genttic material (egg &...
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    Fear of Commitment

    There's prebably another issue at work here, either fear that drives this fear of commitment or a past experiance. I don't think this is a phobia, to say an irrational fear, but instead in intense reaction to a deeper seeded problem. I may be way off , I'm not yet a professional psychoanalist...
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    feels like my hearts been ripped out

    Everyone deserves a chance. Changing old life styles takes time, especialy one who has such a scarring past. It's hard to erase a line thats already been crossed. If you haven't already its best to confront her with your fealings, make everything clear so neither of you harbor any...
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    Her Past

    If you love her you will forgive. I believe people give the devil too much credit. We are all human, it is possible for any of us to be tempted, to be swayed by the words of others. This is especailly true when one has no acount ability. Most likly its a subjuct she will continue to struggle...
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    Love-sick

    From experiance I say, "stay with it", my girlfriend and I lived half a country appart in the begining. It was definatly hard, stay in contact, the interweb, phone, any way you can. One day at a time you'll get through it.
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    Too Borring For Your Partner?

    I never feel to boring for my partner, becuae i am extreamly odd. Or a magnatude i can't really express in words. But thats not the point, one should love and be loved on the bassis of who you are as a person. And odds are, one doesn't see them selves in an accurate manner. You see yourself...
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    Fictional Characters, A to Z (3)

    Jagged Fel
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    Fictional Characters, A to Z (3)

    'Ender" Wiggins
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    Fictional Characters, A to Z (3)

    Corran Horn
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    Fictional Characters, A to Z (3)

    Bob Dole (speaks in third person atlest) Bastila
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    Fictional Characters, A to Z (3)

    Yawgmouth
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    Fictional Characters, A to Z (3)

    Wesly Crusher
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    Fictional Characters, A to Z (3)

    Tougasa (Ghost in the Shell anyone)