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    In a quandary....

    Never thought I'd be in this situation. I met a lady from a website. She lives extremely close by, has developed quite a fondness for me even though we've only been on one date. And while it's nice to kinda see that happen....I can't say that I have much attraction towards her and I'm probably...
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    Starting "treatment"

    I think I made a mistake in going to this mental health clinic in town. My appointment was yesterday, that was sooner than I was expecting, then had to take this exhaustive test/survey to give them info on what's going on. I get to the office and had to get weighed....great....and their scale...
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    What's so wrong about wanting to die?

    When one can objectively determine that he/she is replaceable and that their life is unnecessary, why go through the misery of living? If you feel your faith is sufficient for Christ to save you, aren't you doing yourself a favor by dying? I'm not meaning to sound flippant, but this living is...
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    Should have been aborted.

    My parents didn't necessarily plan to have me. I just happened to happen before they could adopt. But after thinking for the past few months. I should have been aborted. oooooohhh. I just said the "a" word. Or maybe the other "a" word depending on how much atheism is frowned upon here. Am I...
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    Superman Returns

    Just watched it. It sucked. Too much love story. Can't Superman just save the world without there being any love story involved? Too much love story in movies nowadays.
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    Might be starting treatment.

    Just sent my info to a mental health center close by. They'll probably be calling me today. Been thinking about it since I moved away from the ex-wife, but just now was able to rationalize it as just being a "regular checkup" like going to a regular doctor. I'm not necessarily admitting defeat...
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    Bring on the questions...

    Got nothing better to do... Ask your worst and I'll be more honest than the forum rules will probably let me.
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    Is there a right way...?

    ...to recover from divorce? My ex and I separated this January after 7 years together, and the finalized papers are due in the mail any day. As to when the marriage really ended, it's probably up for debate. Our last time being intimate was 9 months before then. And the last time I really felt...
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    Getting passed the wife's past.

    Been years since I posted on this board, and that was in singles. I love my wife. I believe she loves me. However there are times when we talk and the subject of our pasts come up. She has a past; I pretty much don't. I was a virgin until a few weeks before our wedding. I'd had opportunities...
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    I'm a fiancé!

    The past six months or so have been a blur of emotions, from doubting that I'd survive the year to being thankful that I was kept alive all the times that I didn't want to be. In late July I gathered the courage to ask a co-worker to become a couple. Turns out she'd been after me for a...
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    Be the change....

    I guess you could call this "yet another goodbye thread", however I'm making this post into something more. The woman from this thread and I have officially become a couple. At the waterpark we had a blast. We were like kids in the wavepool. And she couldn't help but laugh as I kept going down...
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    Becky's back!!!!

    YAY!!! :clap: I was wondering if she'd have some sense and change it back because she is certainly no "ordinary girl". :D
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    Date or not a date?

    Off and on for the past month or two, one of my co-workers and I have been going to this dance-club/bar/whatever-you-wanna-call-it with a couple that she's friends with on Saturday nights. I usually end up dancing with her once or twice before the night's over. Then a couple of weeks ago she...
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    I need prayer, y'all.

    :( I hurt a friend last night. I didn't even realize what I was doing until it was too late. Didn't get much sleep last night because the guilt kept me up. I didn't mean to hurt her. But I didn't stop myself until it was too late. I didn't control myself, and I let myself hurt someone dear to...
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    Struggling today....

    I'm about to take the computer down for some overdue cleanup. but I really wanted to ask for your prayers before I signed off. I'm really struggling with guilt right now. This past week has brought about a change in thoughts for me that I thought was going well until today. I've let it get...
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    Unworthy of love = unworthy of life?

    I'm not really talking about not having any romantic love, but just overall close friends. If someone is no benefit to anyone, is it really worthwhile for that person to remain alive? Would people notice them not being around?
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    "I want to get to know you...."

    How do you "tell" someone (online) that you want to get to know them? Do you just start randomly asking questions from out of nowhere? or "Hey, you're cool. I want to get to know you." I thought the last approach would seem kinda creepy. But I've been taking the first approach without any...
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    Questions, and maybe a prayer request

    I was listening to this preacher talk on the radio this past Friday morning. And after he was done this other guy (or maybe it was the same guy, I don't know) got on there talking about how these "programs" (preachers' recorded sermons being replayed) that are played during the week are not...
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    Yet another Prayer request...

    Not for me though. It's for a friend of mine. Well, she's not really a friend, more like a colleague. We sometimes talk and she worries about me when my bad thoughts show, but I'm generally mean to her. I don't like the idea of caring about her because she already has someone, so I shame myself...
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    Three friends.....

    A few years ago, I had these three (obviously online forum) friends. All were women close to my age. (I think one or two of them may have been about 4 years younger than me.) And all were fairly good friends for whom I had feelings at one time or another during our friendship. I am putting this...