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  1. Audiomechanic

    It's a little harder when they have PTSD

    I can relate to this. My wife has C-PTSD (Complex post-traumatic stress disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia). It's like PTSD, except not caused by acute trauma, violence or an otherwise singular traumatic event. It's caused by years of less-intense damage done particularly in the...
  2. Audiomechanic

    Do many women stop putting out once they get married?

    My sex life is many times better being married than it was when I was single. Being married to my wife is hawt. :kiss:
  3. Audiomechanic

    Childfree for now. How to deal with constant baby questions?

    *disclaimer: I am not responsible for any injuries or death that may result from this. That being said, do it and report back. :clap:
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    Childfree for now. How to deal with constant baby questions?

    I like this one best. ^_^ Another one that works well if you just want to irritate the crap out of MIL is: "Bless your heart. [pat her head and laugh at her] You poor thing, it's not your fault. You just weren't raised right." Then change the subject. ^_^ That also works with just about...
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    Childfree for now. How to deal with constant baby questions?

    Totally agree. It's like "I'll live my life, you live yours. Thankyouverymuch. "
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    Childfree for now. How to deal with constant baby questions?

    It's hard to ignore it and have a relationship with someone when it's thrown in your face and brought up constantly. It's disrespectful.
  7. Audiomechanic

    Was waiting worth it for you?

    I didn't wait to have sex before marriage, but my wife did. She was a virgin. My previous sexual experiences were...."meh." Sex now is 1000 better (not kidding). My wife and I never had sex with each other before marriage and I'm glad for that, because she was a virgin and that was...
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    Childfree for now. How to deal with constant baby questions?

    Yeah, same with our church back in Katy, TX. If the couple wasn't pregnant on their wedding night, it's like they failed God and humanity. Sad IMO.
  9. Audiomechanic

    Childfree for now. How to deal with constant baby questions?

    There's your issue right there. You and your wife need to be on the same page with how to handle this or it wont stop. You MIL thinks you are "denying your wife children." If your wife (her daughter) doesn't stand up herself to her mother about this and declare her unity with you on this...
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    Childfree for now. How to deal with constant baby questions?

    Be frank with her and tell her that conversation is, a) not her business, and b) now off limits and that neither of you will discuss it with her again. But be firm.
  11. Audiomechanic

    Getting passed the wife's past.

    Fair enough.
  12. Audiomechanic

    Getting passed the wife's past.

    OOOOOOOOOOOORRR... There may be underlying issues there that we can help him resolve, rather than just giving him an e-smack upside the head. Honestly, if you came here asking for advice for something you were struggling with and got the harshness presented, would that really cause you to...
  13. Audiomechanic

    Where did everyone go?

    I'm here! :clap:
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    Getting passed the wife's past.

    JCLover779 managed to get the advice and message out without dragging the guy through the mud. If I went to a Christian church and asked for advice and got the response he did, I'd turn tail and not return.
  15. Audiomechanic

    Kids?

    My brother's wife just had a healthy baby at 43 years old.
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    Getting passed the wife's past.

    Welp, now that he's gotten quite the e-beating, I don't think he's coming back.
  17. Audiomechanic

    Getting passed the wife's past.

    A most excellent and gracious post. :thumbsup:
  18. Audiomechanic

    Why the Childfree Are Hostile

    I actually have no issue at all with parents posting here out of genuine curiosity. Inkachu and akmom, I believe, were asking genuinely honest questions, and I don't mind answering them to the best of my ability. What ends in moderation is when people (and I won't mention (a) name(s)) come...
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    Fitness and Attraction in spouse

    Yes, absolutely.
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    Fitness and Attraction in spouse

    Pretty much agree. But, I'm gonna go ahead and be the male chauvinist pig here and say that my physical desire for my wife increases as her weight decreases. She's not fat by any means now (thank goodness), but when she looses a few pounds and becomes hotter, I want her more. That makes me a...