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    Pregnant & Alone

    Wow thank you all so much for your supportive messages and prayers. I feel much better today and I'm trying to take each day one at a time. To the woman who is also pregnant i pray that you do not need to go through the pain of miscarriage again and that God protects and comforts you and your...
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    Pregnant & Alone

    So I'm in a bad situation. My boyfriend left me when he found out I'm pregnant. I could really use some prayer. I'm majorly depressed, doesn't help that I was previous to this. I'm so scared of dealing with this all alone. Really needing some spiritual help in this situation. I don't want to be...
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    Angry

    I think he'd pay we are kinda on and off but I'm starting to realise that being pregnant is no good for the baby to have a father in and out of his life whenever he feels like it. He hasn't discussed it much with me and just decided to go out on a drinking binge and we haven't spoken since.
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    Angry

    Thanks for all your advice. I am not really angry at God and don't blame him for my troubles I just had an emotional outburst that night cause I felt desperate and alone, abandoned. I found out just a short time after writing this post that I am pregnant. I think I have a lot of trials and stuff...
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    Angry

    Last night I had an angry outburst at God about him not listening to my prayers. I know it's a bit crazy but I was saying things like well you know what and who i am, you know what I struggle with and I really am fed up of all this so if you just want to send me to hell when you're all powerful...
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    That's an interesting take on my dream. With my relationship now maybe I was meant to destroy it because now it is renewed. Most of my issues in dreams seem to be about my relationships cause that's what I end up praying for guidance on most. I'm starting to think the bear in my dreams...
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    S

    These dreams aren't that interesting but I used to have dreams of brown bears being in my house being angry but yesterday the bear was calm and awaiting my order. It was like the bear wanted me to order it to go on some path of destruction. This is the first ever bear dream I've felt very in...
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    Is Cheating on Your Girlfriend a Sin? Will God Forgive Me?

    Clearly you've had a life changing experience since you started the relationship. I'm sure your girlfriend will have noticed this. This might not make her feel any less pain from hearing of your transgressions but it might lesson the blow if you've completely changed your ways. It may be...
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    Please Help!!!!

    You know yourself and her better than i do, but it's easy to be deluded by love. By all means forgive her, but you're young and i don't think you should continue in this relationship. You won't ever forget that she cheated. Find someone who you can start fresh with without painful memories of...
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    Neverending Cycle

    "Time after time i say 'Oh Lord what's the use', Time after time i say 'This just won't do'" I can't cope at all and any time i can't cope i just assume God is going to be there to sort out the mess i made. Then i get comfortable again, not content or happy but just comfortable enough to exist...
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    How to get over someone?

    We have continued the relationship. I do love this man very deeply and whether this is from God or not I don't know. Recently I feel i've been getting mixed signs. He has had his usual behaviour of disappearing for weekends, but often i've begged God to give me a very clear sign as to whether me...
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    How to get over someone?

    I see what you mean with expectations etc but money or qualifications are really not an issue in the sense of my choice in partner. Morality and general decenecy overrule in that sense. I have no formal education myself but I don't think that would make or break my opportunities in dating anyone...
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    what do calvinists pastors say at the funerals of non believers?

    Well in answer to the original question: My brother committed suicide and my parents are both baptists. In my brothers suicide note he mentions his faith and belief in God so the minister decided to hold a Christian funeral. I am sure that minister believed my brother was saved. So it was...
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    How to get over someone?

    I don't think I can. I don't really want to jump from one man to another for one and even if I did want that I lived with this man for 3 years and have never been unfaithful to him. We were going to get married and I'm still in a mindset where I cannot contemplate being with anyone else. I never...
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    I want to die

    What's wrong? I have a lot going wrong lately, I've even prayed for death. I don't think I could take my own life. Just please give it another day cause you can feel so desperate and alone sometimes but after a few hours you'll feel even slightly better. Try and remember God has a plan for you...
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    How to get over someone?

    I've been in an on/off relationship for 3 years with a non-Christian. The relationship has been very turbulent including violence, drugs and alcohol, and other women. The break-ups became more frequent the past year and he would go off and drink heavily for a weekend then come back to me when he...
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    Ethical dilemma (warning may cause discomfort to readers)

    Go get tested to see if you even have HPV. That might put your mind at rest instantly, but don't move on to obsessing about something else unless it is a positive obsession. Focus on God, and your family. God would never say to you "You better call or you are going to hell if you have been the...
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    Relationship break-up and complete lack of spirituality

    Thankyou for taking the time to reply to me. I didn't expect someone to put so much time and thought into my post and i really and truly appeciate it. I understand what you are saying but it is easier said than done to instantly stop worrying about a situation when you have been focussed on it...
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    Relationship break-up and complete lack of spirituality

    I haven't visited this website in ages. I haven't done anything remotely Christian in ages. I was in a relationship with a man i thought i would be with forever for a year and a half. It has been headed to a break-up for a long time, there was violence, too much drinking and a million things...
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    Telling my parents about somthing i did in the past?

    I wish i were as innocent as you lol