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    Waiting until marriage for sex is really hard.

    I'm 22 and still a virgin. I have to say, waiting to have sex before marriage is unrealistic. I don’t know how any normal person can do it. I know how I do it, and I’m one unhappy sob. -I haven’t had a girlfriend, ever. I know that if I had one, and she offered me herself, there would be a very...
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    Should a virgin marry a non virgin?

    lady of god, you know what, thats exactly what I'm going to do. I'd just die if I don't at least give it a shot. I would definetly regret not giving her a chance. She's just too cool.
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    Should a virgin marry a non virgin?

    Carri20, I do like her. Maybe she's not 2nd best, I'm not sure exactly how I feel about that. It has gone through my mind though. Heh, I have thought that maybe I'm not good enough for her. Again, I'm thinking about alot of things here. If I can't get past this non virgin thing, I won't date...
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    Should a virgin marry a non virgin?

    Lion of God, I'm not sure what kind of doubts I could have, could you give me some examples? I am compromising one of my standards. And I kinda/maybe/sort of feel like I'm settling for 2nd best. But I want my standards to be in line with Gods standards, so if theres no verses against marrying a...
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    Should a virgin marry a non virgin?

    Carri20, excellent point. This was raised in a Christian home, she knew better. I'm not sure what you meen by my judgement not being all grins and giggles. I do know the "judge not or your sinning ass will be judged" verse though. I'm not trying to judge, maybe I am, but its not my intention. I...
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    Should a virgin marry a non virgin?

    lady of god, I'm not sure what you meen by decent person. I think in most cases someone that does fear God will be a virgin. Marriage is not ultimately about alot of things, but I think some things are hard to compromise what I expect from a possible future wife. I'm not talking about someone...
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    Should a virgin marry a non virgin?

    Is there anything in the Bible about only marrying virgins? Is it a sin to marry a non virgin? Where does this virgins only should marry virgins thing come from. Cause thats what I have stuck in my mind. I almost want to lose my virgininty so I can date more people.
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    Should a virgin marry a non virgin?

    I'm no where near that point, but I only date for possible marriage hookups. I'm a virgin and the person I'm considering dating isn't. She has been a Christian all her life she had a really bad year and had sex with a couple guys. She's changed now and has the Jesus action all over the place. I...
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    Suicide/Witnessing/Dating. I need some advice, scripture and prayer.

    mrstace, I was thinking that too. I heard about it in an episode of Frasier. But I liked these girls before I knew they have tried to commit suicide. Although their personalties are very similiar. My friend told me that he's like abunch of girls that have tried to commit suicide, he says its...
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    Suicide/Witnessing/Dating. I need some advice, scripture and prayer.

    I'm posting here because I'm looking for advice, prayer and maybe some encouragement too. I know this girl that has seen her dad beat her mom on many occasions. About a week ago he also beat her. She called protective services and is now living with her relatives now. She has attempted to...