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  1. kellyc

    Overweight by 15 pounds and husband is extremely frustrated

    100% agree! you did not gain 500 lbs, complaining about a 15 lb weight gain after two kids is almost laughable. the problem is not you or the 15 lbs. we all look different as we age, get sick, etc. someone who loves you will love the inside more than the outside.
  2. kellyc

    Becoming Asexual

    but but, you said you wanted to be asexual! didn't you? i don't understand why, still.
  3. kellyc

    sleep paralysis and bad evil dreams. All in mind or am I under attack?

    have you had any help with this in the past? it could be anything, a stressful time in life, past issues needing to be addressed, etc. it's so horrible to have your sleep interrupted. i'm sorry :(
  4. kellyc

    Bitterness

    you might even have post traumatic stress disorder which is common for people who were molested. as for the more recent situation, you are the same age as the kid and presumably you could fight him off. the thing is, if you have ptsd then it makes sense that you'd be victimized again, even...
  5. kellyc

    Bearer of a bad news - husband cheating on my best friend

    i think you'd better tell her right away. not sure about your speaking to the husband. how well do you know him?
  6. kellyc

    On going struggle

    no you're right. why is the molester not in jail? if no one has called the police yet, as his mother you have to do it. it's crazy to let your child be around a pedophile. once that is sorted out, i imagine the custody arrangement will be too.
  7. kellyc

    Christian Opinons Only Please

    feeding his passion by watching inappropriate content??? come on now, seriously. you cannot believe that inappropriate contentography is ok, as a christian. for the op, i am sorry you are in this very common situation. there is a good website New Life Live hosts an Every Man's Battle show (March 2011) - News that might offer...
  8. kellyc

    Need Passages/Scripts for Funeral

    i always liked proverbs 31 about the virtuous woman, also the story of ruth.
  9. kellyc

    I need advice on being selfish

    it sounds like you are an insecure guy in some ways, that could be the reason why you are so desperate to get what you can from others. having nice things won't make you happy, being good looking won't make you happy, there isn't anything from the outside that can make you happy. contentment...
  10. kellyc

    my daughter does not like me to sing?

    i think she needs time to herself, and to be with other kids. i agree that it sounds like she's a regular normal 12 yr old. why is she homeschooled?
  11. kellyc

    Odd topic regarding food (Not sure if this is the right forum)

    God convicted me of eating meat because of the mistreatment the meat animals suffer, so i stopped years ago. i don't believe it is a sin, but it is wrong for me. you don't have to do without a steak for the rest of your life, just for today. if you research factory farming it will help your...
  12. kellyc

    Christianity totally gone wrong...

    i really love ravi zacharias. he went to my church when i was a kid.
  13. kellyc

    Christianity totally gone wrong...

    i don't think she is happy that God killed people in Japan, but she seems kind of insensitive to their suffering. i hope that God is glorified in the tragic circumstances there, and maybe that's what she is hoping too, but she is not expressing it well.
  14. kellyc

    Need advice please

    ask God to protect you and do not pay attention to any of the weird things. satan has only the power you give him.
  15. kellyc

    Japan

    the earth isn't perfect, natural disasters happen. i am praying for the people of Japan, it's so sad. there is nothing like calamity to turn a peoples' hearts to God. pray for their spiritual salvation as well as physical.
  16. kellyc

    Japan

    the earth isn't perfect, natural disasters happen. i am praying for the people of Japan, it's so sad. there is nothing like calamity to turn a peoples' hearts to God. pray for their spiritual salvation as well as physical.
  17. kellyc

    I feel like my youth pastor hates or dislikes me

    i tend to think it's nothing personal. some people are just more socially awkward than others. he would probably be surprised if you told him this.
  18. kellyc

    Maybe it's my fault, but I need some help?

    galactus i hope you are joking! hello clay, i am so sorry to hear about your ex taking your daughter. i can't imagine how you must feel about that. it's terrible. when men don't have work they tend to become jerks. they are so identified with their jobs... i don't know why your husband...
  19. kellyc

    Am I trapped?

    her promise to God was backwards! it should have been "i will not have sex until i marry", rather than "i will marry the next man i have sex with". you need to take some steps back, three months is a very short time to enter into such an intimate relationship, and also to even consider...
  20. kellyc

    If God placed me in this job...

    hi amyway, so sorry to hear about your sister. maybe it is just having so many things heaped on you at one time that is making you question your decision about the job. i think it would be a real challenge to work with kids, but fun once you get adjusted physically. try taking airborne! it's...