Edjones writes:
"Scandals in the Roman Catholic Church are nothing new, and one of many reasons is the confessional."
As a matter of fact, scandals in any Christian denomination are nothing new, and I bet if you gave it a moment's thought you could think of a few at your own church- if it is more than twenty years old.
But when you have a church that is 2,000 years old it has had a larger number of scandals. Even 8% of the apostolic college was corrupt, and that was at the very beginning when Christ was still among us. What does the presence of Judas among the apostles say? That Christianity is basically flawed, corrupt, scandalous? No, only that even those with an apostolic vocation can fall from grace.
Frankly I think your comment about the confessional is hilarious. This is straight out of Chinniquy, is it not? You have no idea of the graces that come from the confessional, of the sins that are left behind there, of the good counsel received there, of the numberless souls who are in heaven precisely because of the confessional.
Can it be abused? Yes, but personally I have never known of any such instances. Judas even abused the Last Supper, but what does that prove? Nothing.
Have you ever seen a confessional, or been inside one, or talked to a Catholic about what it means in his life?
For myself, I have encountered my share of inept confessors, even harsh confessors, and have had awkward confessions, but all that is more than offset by the many wonderful encounters with Christ had specifically there-in the confessional. You walk in burdened with worry, guilt and shame, but you walk out as if you were floating on air. The worse my sins have been, the greater the graces received. And with this there is new strength to deal with temptation, greater resolve and ability to avoid sin in the future. And frequently I have gotten good advice that helped me in my relationships, in my prayer life, in my life of grace.
Jesus, thank you for creating the sacrament of Confession, for being there for us when we come with our sins, for absolving us of them and sending us on our way with new strength.
Lee