I know Christianity is about building up the body of christ and encouraging other people, being around other people, and showing love and kindness to everyone - Christian or not. Today I went to a Christian party, and it was wonderful - in the sun, played beach sports and stayed around for ages eating bar-be-q'd stuff and staying until dark.
I come back from these socials and I find that these are some of my lowest and most self destructive times. They highlight my personality flaws, and they concentrate my mind on me - and I hate me, I really do, and always have done - and I am sure I can't be rid of that . Whenever someone talks about grace and God loving me, it's something I just can't deal with, and I look away and can't take it from the person speaking. Whenever someone says 'you're saved' I cant believe it I can preech the fact of grace to others, and I can see why someone's life is worth living with a passion, but I cant see it for myself. Fellowship is put in place so that we can encourage each other, but I find that I go away depressed because groups of Christians are very cleeky, and I'm a quiet person and most Christians are soooo full of life and charasmatic because they understand grace, and they understand they are saved because they have been chosen, and they're so filled with that understanding and its implications - I can only assume of course . My stupid non-understadning mind-set makes me hard to deal with, and conversationis just a bit uneasy because I'm quite self-contained and down to earth. I struggle with SI when I get back from these things...it's almost like craving for a cigarette soo difficult. Even whn I went out with someone I found it was worse than ever bits of glass, burns etc. soo bad I know, but it's an addiction and its an act that further seperates me from others, and I like that - it hurts my head less not to come to terms with these things, and it empathises a great deal with how much I think of myself. So...fellowship with Christians I find hard...and because I recognise Sin and it makes me sad I also get incredibly sad when I spend time with non-christians - even watching an episode of friends I see them being fickle, dealing with things in a selfish way etc. And ok, I don't belong to the kingdom of man and therefore I should be not affected by it - but I have to live in this cold uncaring society of materialism. How did people in here get to grips with grace, how do you people deal with non-christian social situations? Does anyone else think they're just alone in their church? Does being a anti-fellowship person make me lesser Christian?
This all sounds like a whining teen, but I'm 21 and should know better. Sorry.
I come back from these socials and I find that these are some of my lowest and most self destructive times. They highlight my personality flaws, and they concentrate my mind on me - and I hate me, I really do, and always have done - and I am sure I can't be rid of that . Whenever someone talks about grace and God loving me, it's something I just can't deal with, and I look away and can't take it from the person speaking. Whenever someone says 'you're saved' I cant believe it I can preech the fact of grace to others, and I can see why someone's life is worth living with a passion, but I cant see it for myself. Fellowship is put in place so that we can encourage each other, but I find that I go away depressed because groups of Christians are very cleeky, and I'm a quiet person and most Christians are soooo full of life and charasmatic because they understand grace, and they understand they are saved because they have been chosen, and they're so filled with that understanding and its implications - I can only assume of course . My stupid non-understadning mind-set makes me hard to deal with, and conversationis just a bit uneasy because I'm quite self-contained and down to earth. I struggle with SI when I get back from these things...it's almost like craving for a cigarette soo difficult. Even whn I went out with someone I found it was worse than ever bits of glass, burns etc. soo bad I know, but it's an addiction and its an act that further seperates me from others, and I like that - it hurts my head less not to come to terms with these things, and it empathises a great deal with how much I think of myself. So...fellowship with Christians I find hard...and because I recognise Sin and it makes me sad I also get incredibly sad when I spend time with non-christians - even watching an episode of friends I see them being fickle, dealing with things in a selfish way etc. And ok, I don't belong to the kingdom of man and therefore I should be not affected by it - but I have to live in this cold uncaring society of materialism. How did people in here get to grips with grace, how do you people deal with non-christian social situations? Does anyone else think they're just alone in their church? Does being a anti-fellowship person make me lesser Christian?
This all sounds like a whining teen, but I'm 21 and should know better. Sorry.