Here's my situation. I am committed to it, but wanted other's thoughts just the same.
My wife's family, 9 adult siblings, has decided that everyone is going to get together this summer in Branson, Mo. This decision was made at a family meeting my wife and I were not at. My families summer vacation is funded solely with my works bonus check.
Here's how I feel. I feel I am being told how I am going to spend my money. Beyond that, it's not like this family doesn't ever see everyone. In fact, we will see everyone this weekend for a wedding. Beyond that, 8 of the 9 siblings get together 4-6 times a year any way. (I see my brother and sister about once every three years, and then maybe not in the same year.)
We're going, don't get me wrong. But I don't much like the idea of being made to feel like a heel for my reluctance.
What do you think?
Peace.
Peter
My wife's family, 9 adult siblings, has decided that everyone is going to get together this summer in Branson, Mo. This decision was made at a family meeting my wife and I were not at. My families summer vacation is funded solely with my works bonus check.
Here's how I feel. I feel I am being told how I am going to spend my money. Beyond that, it's not like this family doesn't ever see everyone. In fact, we will see everyone this weekend for a wedding. Beyond that, 8 of the 9 siblings get together 4-6 times a year any way. (I see my brother and sister about once every three years, and then maybe not in the same year.)
We're going, don't get me wrong. But I don't much like the idea of being made to feel like a heel for my reluctance.
What do you think?
Peace.
Peter