Hi,
I wonder what you guys n girls think about girls doing the asking.
I for one have no reservations asking guys out in a buddy-buddy
context.
BUT If I like the guy, I am adamant that he has to be the one who does the asking.
Now, I like this guy who is kinda reserved. He did sort of ask me to do something with him in a group setting. I did not take up the offer.
I know he likes me. But he's not asking. In fact, he's given me several hints that he's waiting for me to ask him!!
I just can't. So here I am waiting and praying and waiting.
Do you think God wants the guy to do all the initiating?
A Christian brother told me that he is like that guy I like...and he probably won't ask girls out. He thinks there's nothing wrong with a girl asking..
"You shouldn't think it is the guy's responsibility. Some guys just don't have it in them to ask...so in such cases the girl should take the initiative. Especially guys who are very sensitive. I know it's not natural but these days women rule. That's how the Australian culture is. Men don't want to come across as too authoritarian. I know it's not very natural but that's what the culture has done to men today.
What do you guys think?
I wonder what you guys n girls think about girls doing the asking.
I for one have no reservations asking guys out in a buddy-buddy
context.
BUT If I like the guy, I am adamant that he has to be the one who does the asking.
Now, I like this guy who is kinda reserved. He did sort of ask me to do something with him in a group setting. I did not take up the offer.
I know he likes me. But he's not asking. In fact, he's given me several hints that he's waiting for me to ask him!!
I just can't. So here I am waiting and praying and waiting.
Do you think God wants the guy to do all the initiating?
A Christian brother told me that he is like that guy I like...and he probably won't ask girls out. He thinks there's nothing wrong with a girl asking..
"You shouldn't think it is the guy's responsibility. Some guys just don't have it in them to ask...so in such cases the girl should take the initiative. Especially guys who are very sensitive. I know it's not natural but these days women rule. That's how the Australian culture is. Men don't want to come across as too authoritarian. I know it's not very natural but that's what the culture has done to men today.
What do you guys think?