Why do christian women only want tall guys?
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Because these women are Lawless. They don't care about love, all they want is money and a beta provider serving them. On top of that, they are selfish, stubborn, manipulative and proud, constantly tempting you like Satan. Find a Godly, righteous, humble girl who will accept your husbandly love for her and submit herself to you as to the Lord.
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I said from successful lineages. Not every individual was great in that lineage. And it has nothing to do with morality. But if we are here in this world, it means that our fathers (and their fathers etc) were successful in sexual intercourse. That does not need to mean they were successful in other areas, like being only kings or something. Or great moral characters.
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I agree with you, I actually pray it doesn't entirely go away either.AhhhhhH! This is what I don't like. This is the 'it's a numbers game,
some people are better than you b/c they got better genes, they can date & get married & you never will b/c you are not good enough.' Bad! This is NOT a Biblical perspective. It DOES have a theological
signifance b/c it means some people are in fact better. It also means some people are born mistakes or accidents. Not true!
Also I am in my 30s. I pray the want doesn't go away
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I have been thinking more often that God is saying "I am sovereign and control everything that happens, and if you don't get something despite wanting it a lot, tough then. I am the only one that has the power to effortlessly grant what you desire, but I won't necessarily do that except for my own sake."
The experience of chronic singledom and involuntary celibacy for me and a lot of other people feels like it's own purgatory itself. It's like we are being teased with it.
But you still get it in the end....
It just doesn't always happen in this life. Some will get it in the next life.
What is this life compared to eternity? Enduring defeat after defeat in this life doesn't mean a thing but I do understand how chronic defeat can drain the life out of your soul little by little. That's my life and I may never recover from it.... But it's good to know there's always something to look forward to. Hope never goes completely away.
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Wait... a woman is all of these horrible things if she likes tall men?
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Well, if a woman rejects a man purely because he is a bit shorter than she would like, despite the fact that the man loves her and wants to make her his beloved wife, then what to think of such woman?
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TheLastGeek
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Do you know of a single woman who was madly in love with a man, and adored every single thing about him except his height, and thus rejected him based solely on that and nothing else?
Also, please explain how preferring a taller man has anything to do with money and wanting a "beta provider". How does preferring a tall man make a woman "proud, manipulative, constantly tempting you like Satan"?
Seriously? "I like tall men" is now equivalent to being LIKE SATAN?
Did you really think this post through?
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Height as a preference happens in the early stages, generally before any dates have happened. If a man is professing his love for and desire to marry a woman at that point then she should steer clear of him.
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It's been known that taller people (both sexes) get better opportunities in life than shorter people. Better opportunities, better chances of success.
It's hard to deny the massive influence of material wealth have in our lives, even the Bible have constantly implied material wealth to be the embodiment of the devil, a false god that many people unknowingly serve and worship.
It's very serious and it's not surprising the very strong influence of material wealth will factor into our choices quite strongly. Even if many people genuine believe it isn't true but the heart is deceitful above all things. The Bible provided the hard litmus test for this only very few people will pass, even I won't pass this test.
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Matthew 22:30 and parallells seem to have this ruled out. I know it has been a controversy that has been brought up over and over again, so I will spare from getting too deep into that rabbit hole here. That being said, if I knew I would be able to experience it in the most great way God intended in the next life, you bet it will be a good motivator and I'll look forward.
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Modern society is however structured in such a way that material wealth is increasingly necessary for everything, even for having a chance of finding a partner who will be attracted to you. And the bar for being considered successful is itself being raised even higher because of changes of social structure and economic inflation.
If I could pursue a desirable partner that was also mutually attracted to me and didn't need to do it with any material wealth, I would, but right now that is not the society we live in.
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I know that verse.
I'm not worried perhaps because I have lost the desire to get married. I've seen what's coming in the next life in dreams. What they have there is far more exciting than the best this current life has to offer.
Fortunately, we won't be singing for eternity in fluffy white clouds like hypnotized slaves. I think such place would be aptly called hell, burning in the fire of being trapped in your own delusions forever. I did flew over such place in a dream and the inhabitants are begging me to rescue them.
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We need material resources but our corrupt and evil society have vastly inflated it's value.
This is mainly why poverty exist. The rich love to blame the stupidity of the poor for their poverty when it's the greed of the rich that is to blame. Jesus don't usually find the rich blameless, it's usually the poor! And see how our evil society tries to reverse the concept of good vs evil. Making good evil and evil good!
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The unequal distribution of wealth is not a novel problem that our generation faces. If anything, we live in a time that has more of a true middle class than previous centuries had. It is silly to act like wealth, social status or looks just suddenly became determinants in dating and marriage. Read any Jane Austen novel or similar type of book from that era and you will see that romances were all based on how many pounds per year of income the suitor had or the size of the estate, haha. That is just one small example. It has always been this way in secular society. The ones with the biggest fortunes and most handsome faces get the most choices.
Why would a Christian waste their time whining or agonizing about the priorities of secular society? Just focus on being a Christian and fellowshiping with others who share the same outlook. You shouldn't be trying to find yourself a partner who is secular. Focus on finding someone who is spiritually minded who values or prioritizes Godliness and then become Godly yourself.
Godliness is definitely not being displayed in many of the posts of this thread. Impuning the nature of God and basically attributing to him malevolent and capricious traits and describing him as a Zeus like deity who tortures and tantalizes the human race by withholding the fulfillment of desires he placed in them is audacious. Then to add to that complaints about heaven not living up to your carnal expectations is even worse. Why even serve such a God if that is your opinion of him? If someone genuinely believed that God was this cruel they would be afraid to anger him by saying such things. The truth is that we all know that he is good and slow to anger and thus many feel free to be bratty and complain about him. No less on a "Christian Forum." That makes it even worse and more audacious. This entire thread is bratty and ridiculous
Why would a Christian waste their time whining or agonizing about the priorities of secular society? Just focus on being a Christian and fellowshiping with others who share the same outlook. You shouldn't be trying to find yourself a partner who is secular. Focus on finding someone who is spiritually minded who values or prioritizes Godliness and then become Godly yourself.
Godliness is definitely not being displayed in many of the posts of this thread. Impuning the nature of God and basically attributing to him malevolent and capricious traits and describing him as a Zeus like deity who tortures and tantalizes the human race by withholding the fulfillment of desires he placed in them is audacious. Then to add to that complaints about heaven not living up to your carnal expectations is even worse. Why even serve such a God if that is your opinion of him? If someone genuinely believed that God was this cruel they would be afraid to anger him by saying such things. The truth is that we all know that he is good and slow to anger and thus many feel free to be bratty and complain about him. No less on a "Christian Forum." That makes it even worse and more audacious. This entire thread is bratty and ridiculous
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I generally find people who fixate on "social class" to be insufferable. Their priorities are misguided regardless of whether they happen to be wealthy or poor. As if there is only one way to be successful, attractive, or happy in life when in fact there are many. Those who don't fixate on it are more interesting and pleasant to be around.
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That is so true. In a way, they actually perpetuate these supposed "class wars" by incessantly focusing on it. I also agree with you that there are so many ways to define success. Most people who are miserable about their position in life are miserable, because they are constantly comparing themselves to others and are envious of what they perceive to be success in the life of others. It is really self- defeating and stunts a person's own Christian life.
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I am interested when people claim to see the next life in dreams, it is ambiguous if those images you saw are reasonably accurate of the next life or not.
Do you see the next life taking place on a physical planet like Earth 2.0 or in a completely unimaginable other dimension?
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