Singleness

DragonFox91 said:

Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups,

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Then try going to other churches, say once a month to find one where there are single ladies.

DragonFox91 said:

Hi there


Since I was little I have always wanted to date & get married. I am 30 & never have. One never comes into my life. Right now I work full-time. I go to church. I attend & participate in Sunday School. I attend meet-up groups. But it never happens & has never happened. My heart feels so empty & broken & heavy. I used to struggle w/ really bad anxiety but have come a long ways. No matter how much I work on myself it never seems to be good enough. Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups, whatever I do. I’m so stuck. It feels so hopeless & impossible. It’s hard for me to trust God will deliver on this. Some prayers would be appreciated.

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If it's any consolation, women are in the same position. Love the Lord your God.
Blessings

DragonFox91 said:

Hi there


Since I was little I have always wanted to date & get married. I am 30 & never have. One never comes into my life. Right now I work full-time. I go to church. I attend & participate in Sunday School. I attend meet-up groups. But it never happens & has never happened. My heart feels so empty & broken & heavy. I used to struggle w/ really bad anxiety but have come a long ways. No matter how much I work on myself it never seems to be good enough. Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups, whatever I do. I’m so stuck. It feels so hopeless & impossible. It’s hard for me to trust God will deliver on this. Some prayers would be appreciated.

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Beloved one, we all are acquainted with periods of despondency.Sometimes we think we are hopeless, discouraged or feeling poorly.

We also know the despondency that comes over us when we seem to be getting nowhere in a task we want to accomplish.

Beloved one,
Since this has been laid upon us by God, we need to accept it. He only gives us the very best, because in His love He has planned for every area of our lives — including our weakness and inability. Again, it is His love which allows us to suffer for our bondage. Through this breaking process He wants to strengthen the new man in us.Therefore, the best things that could happen to us is to be poor in some respect or other. This was also the experience of the apostle Paul.

Beloved one, you are right, the way to victory, firstly consist of prayer — the prayer of acceptance.

Let us surrender ourselves in prayer and say Yes to our poverty and inability, to our weakness and humiliation, we will find that our Father in Heaven has prepared a special present for us in His love.

God promised the apostle Paul that He would demonstrate His power all the more in his weakness. And we may claim this promise for ourselves too.

To God the Father be thanksgiving through Christ. Amen

Beloved one, I don’t know your name so I can’t pray for you. You may have reason not to share in this forum. It is all right.

You may pray this:

Holy Spirit,
I thank you that I may await Your Help….You see my helplessness in the face of bondage, and You want to reveal the power of Your redemption and glorify Yourself. And in my inadequacy, You want to assist me and provide for me from Your abundant wisdom, for what is achieved will come from You and not from me.
In Jesus Name I pray. Amen

DragonFox91 said:

Hi there


Since I was little I have always wanted to date & get married. I am 30 & never have. One never comes into my life. Right now I work full-time. I go to church. I attend & participate in Sunday School. I attend meet-up groups. But it never happens & has never happened. My heart feels so empty & broken & heavy. I used to struggle w/ really bad anxiety but have come a long ways. No matter how much I work on myself it never seems to be good enough. Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups, whatever I do. I’m so stuck. It feels so hopeless & impossible. It’s hard for me to trust God will deliver on this. Some prayers would be appreciated.

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Do NOT ever resort to failing to 'trust God' to deliver. One MUST receive His "..beloved Son": the Lord Jesus to have any part in our Creator-God --note John 3; John 14; John 17; and meditate on what God is saying to you there.

God says: "..them that honor Me, I will honor'; so receive and stay close to the Lord Jesus and He will honor and care for you.

praying.

I pray for you and I want to pray for others that are feeling the same thing. Especially since this earth is in such advanced stage of decline and this corruption and sin unfortunately trickles down to our daily interactions and social activities in some way. If there are no more romantic type of relationships in Heaven, the least that I am asking God for is that by a miracle it happens here. I'd like if she approached me. Make her the most physically and spiritually attractive girl to me, if we are going to die I want to at least go out with having that one thing that I have desired since teenagerhood but never achieved.

I been around to Church to groups etc and trust me there are no single girls in my neighborhood or Church. They all are married or have boyfriends. It's very annoying especially thinking a girl is single but then meeting her boyfriend or husband.

DragonFox91 said:

Hi there


Since I was little I have always wanted to date & get married. I am 30 & never have. One never comes into my life. Right now I work full-time. I go to church. I attend & participate in Sunday School. I attend meet-up groups. But it never happens & has never happened. My heart feels so empty & broken & heavy. I used to struggle w/ really bad anxiety but have come a long ways. No matter how much I work on myself it never seems to be good enough. Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups, whatever I do. I’m so stuck. It feels so hopeless & impossible. It’s hard for me to trust God will deliver on this. Some prayers would be appreciated.

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To get married you need to be actually trying to date Christians. I used online Christain dating and ended up getting married.

DragonFox91 said:

Hi there


Since I was little I have always wanted to date & get married. I am 30 & never have. One never comes into my life. Right now I work full-time. I go to church. I attend & participate in Sunday School. I attend meet-up groups. But it never happens & has never happened. My heart feels so empty & broken & heavy. I used to struggle w/ really bad anxiety but have come a long ways. No matter how much I work on myself it never seems to be good enough. Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups, whatever I do. I’m so stuck. It feels so hopeless & impossible. It’s hard for me to trust God will deliver on this. Some prayers would be appreciated.

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Sometimes to let go and trust God is hard. Just because you let go does not mean you will loose out. Letting go means you are humbling yourself to trust that God will work it out. And He will work it out. The moment you let go, He will send someone special in your life because He sees you trust Him. When we trust Him, He blesses us and gives us greater gifts than we can imagine. He knows the type of person that will be a blessing to your life. He knows better than you. You might look, and look, and finally find the wrong person. But letting go and allowing God to bring the person into your life that He chooses, then you will have a blessed relationship.

So, stop looking, and trust that God is looking for you because He loves you. Just go about your normal day, work, church worship, and don't worry. You will meet someone - soon!

God bless you!

DragonFox91 said:

Hi there


Since I was little I have always wanted to date & get married. I am 30 & never have. One never comes into my life. Right now I work full-time. I go to church. I attend & participate in Sunday School. I attend meet-up groups. But it never happens & has never happened. My heart feels so empty & broken & heavy. I used to struggle w/ really bad anxiety but have come a long ways. No matter how much I work on myself it never seems to be good enough. Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups, whatever I do. I’m so stuck. It feels so hopeless & impossible. It’s hard for me to trust God will deliver on this. Some prayers would be appreciated.

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Lord God Almighty, Let your child receive the blessings You have in store for him. Please bring the lady You have planned for him to be revealed. Please help him to continue with the patience he has had so far. Please do away with his fear, and loneliness. Let blessings come by your love, care, and compassion. In Jesus Precious and Holy Name, Amen.

DragonFox91 said:

Hi there


Since I was little I have always wanted to date & get married. I am 30 & never have. One never comes into my life. Right now I work full-time. I go to church. I attend & participate in Sunday School. I attend meet-up groups. But it never happens & has never happened. My heart feels so empty & broken & heavy. I used to struggle w/ really bad anxiety but have come a long ways. No matter how much I work on myself it never seems to be good enough. Right now it’s a challenge to even meet single girls, there’s not any at work, church, meet-up groups, whatever I do. I’m so stuck. It feels so hopeless & impossible. It’s hard for me to trust God will deliver on this. Some prayers would be appreciated.

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God said to Sarah what is to hard for the lord?" Jer "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."

He also said to Sarah "s anything too hard for the LORD?"

He also said "Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He will give you the desires and secret petitions of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord [roll and repose each care of your load on Him]; trust (lean on, rely on, and be confident) also in Him and He will bring it to pass."

See man didn't say this God the great I am who can not lie. If He said it shall He not bring it to pass? I can give you a list pages long of just those like yourself who are no longer alone Oh there is nothing your Father cannot do. It will happen faster then you think. Praise you Father for always hearing.. to you and you alone do we give all the glory and praise in the name above every name JESUS CHRIST! YES holy holy holy... is the lord GOD almighty.

Praying.

DragonFox91 said:

Wow. Started this thread more than a year ago. Still no one.

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Hi DragonFox, praying for you

Like most people, I have lots of advice on this subject. Have you opened a thread in the Requests for Christian advice section? Are you active in the singles area here?