I've been listening to a number of David Pawson lectures lately, and he points out that the notion of a "loving God / God is Love" only figures in something like 1-in-a-thousand verses across the entire bible. Many books have ZERO allusion to a loving God. Most others have maybe one or two at best.
Instead of "God is love", he advocated for "God is a god of Righteousness", which is everywhere across both Testaments and underscores, in his opinion, the glory of the Cross and Jesus' sacrifice for us. As to whether a "hurting world" is best assuaged by a message of God's love, haven't we been preaching primarily that for 50+ years now? How's that working out for us?
Love is God's highest priority ... for He SO LOVED He gave His son!
We are told we live in a fallen world and that we will have "woes". We are born into a "battlefield" ... there is a spiritual war going on .... we can understand war ... it is devastating until it is ended ... and ... He will end it (I hope soon)
It's not over yet.
This is the problem with the Calvinistic view .... it dismisses the profound love of God.
Here's just a few ...
Matthew 5:44: “Love your enemies.”
Matthew 22:39: After stating that the greatest commandment is to love God with your entire being, Jesus added, “The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’”
John 13:34-35: “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
John 15:12, 17: “This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you…. This I command you, that you love one another.”
Romans 13:8, 10: “Owe nothing to anyone except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law…. Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.”
1 Corinthians 13:13-14:1: “But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love. Pursue love ….” Moffatt translates, “Make love your aim.”
1 Corinthians 16:14: “Let all that you do be done in love.”
Galatians 5:6: “For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision means anything, but faith working through love.”
Galatians 5:13b-14: “Through love serve one another. For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’”
Galatians 5:22: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love ….”
Ephesians 5:1-2: “Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.”
Philippians 1:9: “And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment ….”
1 Thessalonians 3:12: “may the Lord cause you to increase and abound in love for one another, and for all people, just as we also do for you.”
When it comes down to it, God uses two standards that are actually one: our response to Jesus’ offer of salvation, and His Law.
Jesus was the embodiment of the Law of God. He lived out the goodness of the Law in perfect love.
We live in a lawless age that disdains boundaries and restrictions. Thus, the notion of loving God's law seems quite strange to the unbeliever. Yet it should never seem strange to us.
If God by His Spirit has poured His love into our hearts (Romans 5), then we will love whatever reflects His character. We will love His law because it shows us who He is, and He is altogether lovely.