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Are you talking about cultural expectations? So that if a man shows fragility or weakness, the people around him will bully him and shame him, but if a woman shows fragility, she's less likely to get bullied. Is that what you mean?
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women are fragile
doesn't equal to weakness

men in general, aren't fragile
doesn't equal to weakness

remove weakness from the equation
 
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I'll grant that many women have bodies that are more fragile than the bodies that many men have -- bones that are smaller and break more easily, and so on. (Standard note: there's a lot of statistical variation within both sexes, and one's physical training and calcium and protein intake make a difference.)

People's inner selves are robust or fragile in varying degrees, and I don't think it's gender-correlated. The expressions of fragility can be somewhat gender-correlated, though, because of our different social conditioning as children: when you "break", are you more likely to cry or to have an angry outburst?

@somespirit2 , is this closer to what you're getting at?
 
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women can be fragile, but not weak
men in general are not fragile, not weak either

am i correct

we are all weak and fragile

2 Corinthians 12:9

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
 
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Men can have a weakness for depending on violence.

Men can be weak for how a woman looks and talks, and be too weak to have a mutual relationship without abusive arguing, and they can be weak for thinking they have to control things.
 
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women can be fragile, but not weak
men in general are not fragile, not weak either

am i correct

I'm not seeing why both can't be weak. It all depends on the person and in what way we mean "weak."
 
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