These past couple of days, I want to put that ring in my finger. I'm not talking to my ex-wife and only wished her a happy birthday this year, and she did the same to me on my birthday (our birthday is just a few days apart in the month of March). I saw her once at Nature's Emporium but was too shy to approach her.
We divorced 8 years ago. I find it hard to believe I was ever married in the first place because I don't generally talk to any women period and don't deal with women and believe they don't like me, etc.... and have been tuning into all sorts of blackpill & incel content online that I have been in denial that any woman ever loved me and I was ever married. It is just hard to believe I was ever married and its like this ring it the only evidence against this delusion and I feel I must wear it, at least to remind myself that a woman did love me in the past enough to give me this, if nothing else?
I'll see if the craving to wear this ring goes away. I will acknowledge that I was married and won't deceive myself into thinking it never happened. Maybe if I "negotiate" my acknowledging a marriage took place in the past rather than feeling blackpilled, the craving will go away on its own.
We divorced 8 years ago. I find it hard to believe I was ever married in the first place because I don't generally talk to any women period and don't deal with women and believe they don't like me, etc.... and have been tuning into all sorts of blackpill & incel content online that I have been in denial that any woman ever loved me and I was ever married. It is just hard to believe I was ever married and its like this ring it the only evidence against this delusion and I feel I must wear it, at least to remind myself that a woman did love me in the past enough to give me this, if nothing else?
I'll see if the craving to wear this ring goes away. I will acknowledge that I was married and won't deceive myself into thinking it never happened. Maybe if I "negotiate" my acknowledging a marriage took place in the past rather than feeling blackpilled, the craving will go away on its own.