Hi, I'm not trying to badmouth my dad (I always preface it with this), but I'm very triggered by a dispute I had with him and I KNOW I'm right and he's wrong, and it's ABSURD beyond comprehension how it's even a debate.
My dad was telling me to find a woman for my brother, from church (I don't even have a home church, but I certainly don't go down that road in the discussion). I told him that a woman from church is not going to find my brother to be a match because my brother is not Catholic. In fact I don't even know what he is. He's into flat earth based on a literal interpretation of some stuff in the OT, but that doesn't mean he's Christian. He says the Koran teaches flat earth, so who the heck knows what his beliefs are. I don't like to talk to my brother about religious beliefs, or else I'd know more. Anyway my dad threw a hissy fit when I suggested that I didn't want to help because I don't want to facilitate the coupling of two people who are of different faiths. I feel it's very wrong for me to do this, given how much pain I've suffered. I feel it's wrong period. He just won't have it. I am preoccupied with my own problems. I was planning to talk to a couple people at my "home" parish about a problem that is torturing me, that I think is even demonic, and I don't want to make time for an errand that COMPLETELY goes against my conscience. COMPLETELY.
It still pains me like hell to this day that my parents were of two different faiths because it ruined my life IMHO (in spite of the fact that I've forgiven them!), and I'm not going to put two people together who are of different faiths because it brings me deep-seeded pain. I don't care if I look over the top. If some woman wants to compromise her faith and hook up with my brother that is her problem, but I'll be darned if I'm the one to get the ball rolling. It feels totally SINFUL for me to do this.
My dad was telling me to find a woman for my brother, from church (I don't even have a home church, but I certainly don't go down that road in the discussion). I told him that a woman from church is not going to find my brother to be a match because my brother is not Catholic. In fact I don't even know what he is. He's into flat earth based on a literal interpretation of some stuff in the OT, but that doesn't mean he's Christian. He says the Koran teaches flat earth, so who the heck knows what his beliefs are. I don't like to talk to my brother about religious beliefs, or else I'd know more. Anyway my dad threw a hissy fit when I suggested that I didn't want to help because I don't want to facilitate the coupling of two people who are of different faiths. I feel it's very wrong for me to do this, given how much pain I've suffered. I feel it's wrong period. He just won't have it. I am preoccupied with my own problems. I was planning to talk to a couple people at my "home" parish about a problem that is torturing me, that I think is even demonic, and I don't want to make time for an errand that COMPLETELY goes against my conscience. COMPLETELY.
It still pains me like hell to this day that my parents were of two different faiths because it ruined my life IMHO (in spite of the fact that I've forgiven them!), and I'm not going to put two people together who are of different faiths because it brings me deep-seeded pain. I don't care if I look over the top. If some woman wants to compromise her faith and hook up with my brother that is her problem, but I'll be darned if I'm the one to get the ball rolling. It feels totally SINFUL for me to do this.