Is there a grace stated to be irresistible in scripture?
John 6:44 says that only by the drawing of the Spirit of God, can anyone be saved. It is often suggested by Reformers and Calvinists that a better term would be Effectual Grace, since the question is not whether even the grace of regeneration can be resisted, but whether those God has elected will eventually be regenerated. They indeed will. Every last one of them.
But further, it is not by THEIR decision and effort that the Spirit does his work, but by God's decision and work.
John 6:37-39
All that the Father gives me will come to me
Romans 8:28-30
And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.
Paul says faith comes by hearing the word of God. You conject (as in show no scripture) that the Holy Spirit cannot draw a willing person to Himself as is - because you conject man remains unwilling until he is re-born.
Romans 10:17 So then faith
comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
I have repeatedly explained that they are one and the same thing. Man's will is changed when God draws him, but man does not change his own will.
Man has both spirit and flesh. Paul shows that his own flesh (AKA body) is not born-again and cannot please God in
1 Corinthians 9:27. The Holy Spirit communicates with man's spirit per
Proverbs 20:27 - so your flesh analogy does not apply.
1 Corinthians 9:27 But I discipline my body and bring
it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.
Proverbs 20:27 The spirit of a man
is the lamp of the LORD, Searching all the inner depths of his heart.
What flesh analogy? The mind, or heart, of flesh is a scriptural concept. I didn't make it up. Analogy?? Of course the flesh is never born again in this life! I never implied otherwise.
We do know that man's will is involved in salvation as Peter's Holy Spirit led preaching pleads with men and even promises salvation (remission of sin and receipt of the Holy Spirit) to those who respond with repentance and baptism in Acts 2:38-39. Receiving the gift of the Holy Spirit results in both being born-again and saved.
Man's will is not the active cause of regeneration. You yourself have said that the Spirit of God draws the lost. They do not first ask to be drawn. This is by the choice and act of God. That draw is the change of will. It can be all at once, and it can take years. In fact, it can even happen without the person realizing it is happening.
A further point, that I don't often hear made even in Reformed circles: The Arminian talks of prevenient grace. The "draw" is part of what they are referring to by Prevenient Grace. But the draw, by the Holy Spirit, is not partial in the sense that it is ALL of Grace, and ALL of truth. It IS the regeneration that I have consistently been claiming is complete in that it is of the Holy Spirit, who is altogether whole and complete. But it can take years. The point at which man first makes an active choice of submission is not the point at which regeneration begins, but, rather, an affirmation that regeneration has already happened. It is the beginning of the new life, though to my thinking, even that has begun before that point. It is the first of a continuing line of the repeating practice of submission.
And that submission is not the point at which God says, "now he is mine". That has already been done. And it is, or it is not, submission! If it is by the indwelling Spirit of God, it is submission. If it is not, it remains enmity to God. If one is regenerated, the Spirit of God compels
and substantiates the submission.
Of course man's will is affected! Of course man's heart desires God upon regeneration,