My reflection on this from Iranaeus
is that darkness does not have to mean "eternal torture" as I think the poster was trying to push.
Why can't it mean something completely different such as a period of feeling God's absence so that you realise God's worth? Something educational rather than mindless eternal punishment, however controversial it may be to say that about God lol.
Why does every reference to God's displeasure or man's disobedience have to lead to eternal torture? What sort of relationship can you have on that basis?
Well because that’s what Iranaeus said about it.
so is also our walk in life required to be more circumspect, when we are directed not merely to abstain from
evil actions, but even from
evil thoughts, and from idle words, and empty talk, and scurrilous language:
thus also the punishment of those who do not believe the Word of God, and despise His advent, and are turned away backwards, is increased; being not merely temporal, but rendered also eternal. For to whomsoever the Lord shall say, Depart from me, you cursed, into
everlasting fire,
Matthew 25:41 these shall be damned for ever
St Iranaeus 170AD Adversus Haereses Book 4 Chapter 28
4. But
God, foreknowing all things, prepared fit habitations for both, kindly conferring that light which they desire on those who seek after the light of incorruption, and resort to it; but for the despisers and mockers who avoid and turn themselves away from this light, and who do, as it were, blind themselves, He has prepared darkness suitable to
personswho oppose the light, and He has inflicted an appropriate punishment upon those who try to avoid being subject to Him. Submission to
God is
eternal rest, so that they who shun the light have a place worthy of their flight; and those who fly from
eternal rest, have a habitation in accordance with their fleeing. Now, since all
good things are with
God, they who by their own determination fly from
God, do defraud themselves of all
good things; and having been [thus] defrauded of all
good things with respect to
God, they shall consequently fall under the just judgment of
God. For those
persons who shun rest shall
justly incur punishment, and those who avoid the light shall
justly dwell in darkness. For as in the case of this temporal light, those who shun it do deliver themselves over to darkness, so that they do themselves become the
cause to themselves that they are destitute of light, and do inhabit darkness; and, as I have already observed, the light is not the
cause of such an [unhappy] condition of
existence to them; so those who fly from the
eternal light of
God, which contains in itself all
good things, are themselves the
cause to themselves of their inhabiting
eternal darkness, destitute of all
goodthings, having become to themselves the
cause of [their consignment to] an abode of that nature.
St Iranaeus 170AD Adversus Haereses Book 4 Chapter 39