Yeah, but even when you’re really right, you need to start in your own church. Fr Matt is right that you need to be really careful, and when we want in anger, we aren’t generally being careful. It means to be full of care, of concern and wishes for both the betterment and the best for those hierarchs. I feel that the worldliness of lay folk at a Greek parish in the US were a contributing factor in my mother’s decision to leave them and turn to Islam. So I have my own axe that I could grind. But my own sins keep threatening to become a beam in my eye.
Hi Rusmeister,
I'm not sure that you understand the issue. Some people can try to work in their own Church, like if they are in the Assembly of God and want to bring it to Orthodoxy, or if they are in GOARCH and want to try to bring it to the doctrine of only "First Among Equals."
The person can go to their parishioners, priest, and bishop, and their answer can be "No," and then what is your advice, to stay in the Assembly of God or in GOARCH, and keep trying to "work" to bring them to doctrinal orthodoxy?
Your answer will probably be to me, correctly, that GOARCH is not Assembly of God. I agree. However, the fundamental issue is what to do in a situation where a person has a legitimate, canonical reason to be unhappy in their jurisdiction. Certainly, trying to talk to the parish about the issue is a good idea, but what happens when that doesn't work? How long are you going to demand that a person stay in that situation that is unhappy for them and try to change a situation where they make no headway?
People have natural limits as to how much they can push until they burn out themselves.
Let's be clear, "First Without Equals" is a major issue. If it's true, then we need to figure out whether Rome or Constantinople is supposed to be the institutional head of all Christians. If it's false, then someone is wrongly trying to give someone or their synod power over everyone else.