17 days and I am tempted to sin

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Hello @Lenno, though we, as believers, have been given a new nature by God .. e.g. Ezekiel 36:26-27; John 3:3; 2 Corinthians 5:17, our old nature/old man/old self is always nearby, ready to rear its ugly head and make a mess of things. We, in fact, will not be completely free of our "old self" (old nature) on this side of the grave, so we are commanded to put off our old self and put on the new, day by day, or minute by minute, as necessary .. e.g. Ephesians 4:22-24, cf Romans 12:2.

Also, as a new believer, you need to have a growing understanding and awareness of the fact that you, like the rest of us, have a common enemy now (Satan and his demons), who whisper lies, deceptions and half-truths into a believer's ears (so to speak) to tempt us to turn from God by getting us to doubt the truth that He's given us in His word.

You need to resist him by taking such thoughts and feelings "captive" at the very moment that they enter your mind .. 2 Corinthians 10:5; James 4:7.

There is a book, a collection of short stories actually, by C.S. Lewis called, The Screwtape Letters, that would be worth reading (if you have not already done so), especially since it is now free to read online (see the link above). The principal characters in the book are two demons, and it is from their perspective that Lewis writes his book (he first read each of the stories on the radio in England during the 1940's, if memory serves, and the collection/book is now considered to be one of our Christian classics :)).

What this book will help you understand (even though it's fiction) is what the demons are up to/how and why they operate in your life as they do (so that you will be able to more easily and more quickly recognize their attacks for what they truly are and then resist them :oldthumbsup:).

One thing to remember is that since this book was written from the demons' POV, it is unlike any other Christian book that you will probably ever read (whenever you see the word "Enemy" in this book, for instance, you know that the Person being talked about is God). Be sure to read the Preface and any other intro material to gain a better understanding of it.

Finally, it would be a good idea to talk to your pastor and tell him what you are going through right now, both for his help & counsel, and so that he will know how he can be praying for you too.

Praying for you!

God bless you!!

--David

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Your faith is not based on you and what you do. Your faith is based on HIS faithfulness. He is with you, will not leave you or forsake you. With regards to sin, He is faithful to provide a way of escape. If you sin, when you confess your sin, he is faithful and just to forgive you. Rest in Him.

"There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it." 1 Corin 10:13

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” I John 1:9

Trust in HIS faithfulness to hold you.
 
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Hello @Lenno, though we, as believers, have been given a new nature by God .. e.g. Ezekiel 36:26-27; John 3:3; 2 Corinthians 5:17, our old nature/old man/old self is always nearby, ready to rear its ugly head and make a mess of things. We, in fact, will not be completely free of our "old self" (old nature) on this side of the grave, so we are commanded to put off our old self and put on the new, day by day, or minute by minute, as necessary .. e.g. Ephesians 4:22-24, cf Romans 12:2.

Also, as a new believer, you need to have a growing understanding and awareness of the fact that you, like the rest of us, have a common enemy now (Satan and his demons), who whisper lies, deceptions and half-truths into a believer's ears (so to speak) to tempt us to turn from God by getting us to doubt the truth that He's given us in His word.

You need to resist him by taking such thoughts and feelings "captive" at the very moment that they enter your mind .. 2 Corinthians 10:5; James 4:7.

There is a book, a collection of short stories actually, by C.S. Lewis called, The Screwtape Letters, that would be worth reading (if you have not already done so), especially since it is now free to read online (see the link above). The principal characters in the book are two demons, and it is from their perspective that Lewis writes his book (he first read each of the stories on the radio in England during the 1940's, if memory serves, and the collection/book is now considered to be one of our Christian classics :)).

What this book will help you understand (even though it's fiction) is what the demons are up to/how and why they operate in your life as they do (so that you will be able to more easily and more quickly recognize their attacks for what they truly are and then resist them :oldthumbsup:).

One thing to remember is that since this book was written from the demons' POV, it is unlike any other Christian book that you will probably ever read (whenever you see the word "Enemy" in this book, for instance, you know that the Person being talked about is God). Be sure to read the Preface and any other intro material to gain a better understanding of it.

Finally, it would be a good idea to talk to your pastor and tell him what you are going through right now, both for his help & counsel, and so that he will know how he can be praying for you too.

Praying for you!

God bless you!!

--David

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I’ve been walking with Jesus only 17 days but things are not going well. Mainly therapy related things.

I’m tempted to doubt Jesus and to sin.

Please pray that I stay with Jesus and don’t sin.
Everyone is tempted to sin. Doubt is not unusual. Satan hates new Christians and tries to put them down. Ask Lord Jesus to strengthen you so that you will be able to resist. Also be sure to pray "Do not lead me into temptation but deliver me from evil". And if you do fail, it's not the end of the world. Confess your sin and get on with living.
 
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Praying for you. Have you joined a local church? If you would like to talk to a Chaplain, we have a private Ask A Chaplain subforum.
Thankyou for your prayers and information. I am a member of a local church
 
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I’ve been walking with Jesus only 17 days but things are not going well. Mainly therapy related things.

I’m tempted to doubt Jesus and to sin.

Please pray that I stay with Jesus and don’t sin.
My mom (may she rest in peace...) once told me that once you give your live to Jesus, satan WILL come after you. That's almost guaranteed.

Will pray for you...
 
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Hello @Lenno, though we, as believers, have been given a new nature by God .. e.g. Ezekiel 36:26-27; John 3:3; 2 Corinthians 5:17, our old nature/old man/old self is always nearby, ready to rear its ugly head and make a mess of things. We, in fact, will not be completely free of our "old self" (old nature) on this side of the grave, so we are commanded to put off our old self and put on the new, day by day, or minute by minute, as necessary .. e.g. Ephesians 4:22-24, cf Romans 12:2.

Also, as a new believer, you need to have a growing understanding and awareness of the fact that you, like the rest of us, have a common enemy now (Satan and his demons), who whisper lies, deceptions and half-truths into a believer's ears (so to speak) to tempt us to turn from God by getting us to doubt the truth that He's given us in His word.

You need to resist him by taking such thoughts and feelings "captive" at the very moment that they enter your mind .. 2 Corinthians 10:5; James 4:7.

There is a book, a collection of short stories actually, by C.S. Lewis called, The Screwtape Letters, that would be worth reading (if you have not already done so), especially since it is now free to read online (see the link above). The principal characters in the book are two demons, and it is from their perspective that Lewis writes his book (he first read each of the stories on the radio in England during the 1940's, if memory serves, and the collection/book is now considered to be one of our Christian classics :)).

What this book will help you understand (even though it's fiction) is what the demons are up to/how and why they operate in your life as they do (so that you will be able to more easily and more quickly recognize their attacks for what they truly are and then resist them :oldthumbsup:).

One thing to remember is that since this book was written from the demons' POV, it is unlike any other Christian book that you will probably ever read (whenever you see the word "Enemy" in this book, for instance, you know that the Person being talked about is God). Be sure to read the Preface and any other intro material to gain a better understanding of it.

Finally, it would be a good idea to talk to your pastor and tell him what you are going through right now, both for his help & counsel, and so that he will know how he can be praying for you too.

Praying for you!

God bless you!!

--David

Thankyou for your words and prayers
 
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Your faith is not based on you and what you do. Your faith is based on HIS faithfulness. He is with you, will not leave you or forsake you. With regards to sin, He is faithful to provide a way of escape. If you sin, when you confess your sin, he is faithful and just to forgive you. Rest in Him.

"There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it." 1 Corin 10:13

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” I John 1:9

Trust in HIS faithfulness to hold you.
Thankyou for your words and prayers. I will not sin. I am however plagued by worry. Please pray that worry doesn’t ruin my life. God bless you Savedbygrace
 
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Everyone is tempted to sin. Doubt is not unusual. Satan hates new Christians and tries to put them down. Ask Lord Jesus to strengthen you so that you will be able to resist. Also be sure to pray "Do not lead me into temptation but deliver me from evil". And if you do fail, it's not the end of the world. Confess your sin and get on with living.
Thankyou for your words and prayers. I will not sin. I’m ruined by worry though so please pray I can somehow break the worry cycle
 
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My mom (may she rest in peace...) once told me that once you give your live to Jesus, satan WILL come after you. That's almost guaranteed.

Will pray for you...
Thankyou for your words and prayers. I’m ruined by worry also please pray that worry doesn’t ruin my life
 
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I’ve been walking with Jesus only 17 days but things are not going well. Mainly therapy related things.

I’m tempted to doubt Jesus and to sin.

Please pray that I stay with Jesus and don’t sin.
Christ knew you and I would need to pray, and would need to know how best to pray.

So, He instructed you and I to pray this way, each day --

9“This, then, is how you should pray:

“ ‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,

10 your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.

11 Give us today our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.

13 And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from the evil one.’

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14For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

Matthew 6 NIV

(the last 2 verses are not part of the prayer, but a key teaching He wants us to know, to go along with this prayer...)

Lenno, I can tell you that when I sometimes forgot to pray this in the last few years, I sometimes had that day some problems or temptations or conflicts that might come up, but when I then finally stopped and took time to pray this prayer Christ gave us, then those problems disappeared as if they had never existed. For instance, a conflict with a person suddenly just removed, and harmony, as if we hadn't even argued (as if it was never there...). Things like that.

So, that's how powerful it is.
 
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I’ve been walking with Jesus only 17 days but things are not going well. Mainly therapy related things.

I’m tempted to doubt Jesus and to sin.

Please pray that I stay with Jesus and don’t sin.

Father help Lenno in his new walk with You. Help him grow closer to You and to know Your love that his sin is paid for. Help him not to worry. Bless him and guide him. Take away his fear. Thank You for Your continued mercy. In Jesus Name, Amen.
 
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Stop trying to believe or accept something. Your attempts are worthless. Only know that He has you. Relax. He is the one holding you by His faith, not you holding Him. You cannot do that.

“I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20 KJV)

This means He is holding YOU.
Faith is little more than knowledge, that is knowing what He said and that He is true (faithful) to His word. He is not lying when He said He will never leave you or forsake you. Just know it is true, and thank Him for it.
Giving Him thanks is one of the purest expressions of your faith.
"Thank you, Lord, for saving me. Thank you for keeping me and holding my with your faith."
 
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Christ knew you and I would need to pray, and would need to know how best to pray.

So, He instructed you and I to pray this way, each day --

9“This, then, is how you should pray:

“ ‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,

10 your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.

11 Give us today our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.

13 And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from the evil one.’

-------
14For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

Matthew 6 NIV

(the last 2 verses are not part of the prayer, but a key teaching He wants us to know, to go along with this prayer...)

Lenno, I can tell you that when I sometimes forgot to pray this in the last few years, I sometimes had that day some problems or temptations or conflicts that might come up, but when I then finally stopped and took time to pray this prayer Christ gave us, then those problems disappeared as if they had never existed. For instance, a conflict with a person suddenly just removed, and harmony, as if we hadn't even argued (as if it was never there...). Things like that.

So, that's how powerful it is.
I found this advice on forgiving others very helpful Thankyou. I would like eventually to forgive all those that have wronged me but for now when I can’t forgive someone I’m asking god to help me forgive them asap I think this has worked in one case for me (my school bully, the main one). Your reminder to pray the Lord’s Prayer is also fitting so Thankyou and god bless
 
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Father help Lenno in his new walk with You. Help him grow closer to You and to know Your love that his sin is paid for. Help him not to worry. Bless him and guide him. Take away his fear. Thank You for Your continued mercy. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Thankyou
 
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Stop trying to believe or accept something. Your attempts are worthless. Only know that He has you. Relax. He is the one holding you by His faith, not you holding Him. You cannot do that.

“I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20 KJV)

This means He is holding YOU.
Faith is little more than knowledge, that is knowing what He said and that He is true (faithful) to His word. He is no lying when He said He will never leave you or forsake you. Just know it is true, and thank Him for it.
Giving Him thanks is one of the purest expressions of your faith.
"Thank you, Lord, for saving me. Thank you for keeping me and holding my with your faith."
Thankyou
 
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