Why we left the Catholic Church

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Peter had an interesting statement on that point.

Corresponding to that - Baptism now saves you - not the touch of holy water to the flesh - but rather an APPEAL to God for a clean conscience 1 Pet 3.​

Because salvation works like this "8 But what does it say? “The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart”—that is, the word of faith which we are preaching, 9 that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved; 10 for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation." Rom 10

John 1:11 "to as many as BELIEVED to them He gave the right to be called the children of God"

Acts 16:
30 And he brought them out and said, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?”
31 So they said, “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.” 32 Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all who were in his house. 33 And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their stripes. And immediately he and all his family were baptized.
feel free to stick with "I gotta make the first move in order to merit salvation" idea.
 
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Although I was never a Catholic, I can fully understand your comments.

I grew up in a very polarised community where Roman Catholics were, in my view, substantially marginalised by the so-called Protestant political majority. It’s an appalling background that never really went away, although society here today is much less sectarian, thankfully. I certainly wouldn’t call myself a Protestant today and I’ve been thankful to have devout Roman Catholics for neighbours.

When I became a Christian at 18 I was influenced by the historic idea in my province that Roman Catholicism along with nationalism should be suppressed through the ballot box. Along the way I shook off the divisive political angle and took the time to look much closer at the Roman Catholic faith.

What has struck me most over the years, and what truly astonishes me more than anything else, is the vast gulf I found between Roman Catholic Magisterium dogma and the fullness of the Gospel message in Scripture (the Magisterium is “the [Roman Catholic] Church's divinely appointed authority to teach the truths of religion”).

My insurmountable problem with the Roman Catholic system is its dogmatic determination to rank Tradition as authoritative and indispensable as God-breathed Scripture. It's this Tradition that gives Roman Catholicism its distinctive characteristics. If we lay aside every dogma and teaching of the Roman position and use Scripture alone to define the fullness of the Gospel message, do we need anything that Roman Catholicism has to offer?

To be fair, how does that work out in actual practice for me? Well, every aspect of Christian teaching, and every aspect of my salvation and daily walk of faith in Christ, and every aspect of the practices of my local church, are catered for by Scripture. This secure day-to-day reality (that I’ve known for over 40 years) calls into question the Roman Catholic system in general, and its infallible Tradition in particular.
I understand that, and I would be the very first to say that being Catholic, and living up to that Tradition is one of the most difficult things that I have ever attempted in my whole life.

Every week I try, and every week I fail.
Even as a Protestant I could manage to go a few weeks before I would fail, pick myself up, appologize to God, and try again. And I know that He would forgive me, and help me to carry on.
But in the Catholic Church it's not so easy, not so easy at all.
 
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feel free to stick with "I gotta make the first move in order to merit salvation" idea.

who are you quoting?? "you"??

John 16 says God "convicts the WORLD of sin and righteousness and judgment"
In John 12:32 Jesus "draws ALL mankind unto Him"

How do you spin that around to the "I gotta make the first move in order to merit salvation" idea??
 
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BobRyan said:
ok one tiny congregation ... so you're saying one cannot accuse 100's of millions of Christians of whatever one find "one tiny congregation" doing?

Yes, but it's more than that in this case because not only is what Westboro is best known for--those intrusive and insulting demonstrations at other people's funerals--but a huge percentage of Protestant churches denounced that action as well.

My point is that even if no Protestant churches said a single peep about "what one tiny local congregation" does as a one-off , is it valid to accuse 100's of millions of Christians for what we find in one tiny local congregation?
 
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Even as a Protestant I could manage to go a few weeks before I would fail, pick myself up, appologize to God, and try again. And I know that He would forgive me, and help me to carry on.
But in the Catholic Church it's not so easy, not so easy at all.

So going to God for forgiveness will not cut it in your POV? or are saying "in the Catholic POV"??
 
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Creedal churches such as Roman Catholics, the Orthodox Churches, The Anglican Communion and Lutheran Churches are creedal. They least start with a statement they can all assent to and it is based on an interpretation of the Bible. If one cant agree it is best to go somewhere else.

Other churches like Baptists and many independent Christian churches are NOT creedal. They will claim to be Bible based but that is not a claim unique to them. eve creedal churches claim their creed is Bible based.
The Roman Catholic church gave birth to a great many of them including the Orthodox church.

That tradition continued even within Protestant churches that gave birth to others as well.

In other words ... that is not "the difference"
Creedal churches such as Roman Catholics, the Orthodox Churches, The Anglican Communion and Lutheran Churches are creedal. They least start with a statement they can all assent to and it is based on an interpretation of the Bible. If one cant agree it is best to go somewhere else.

Other churches like Baptists and many independent Christian churches are NOT creedal. They will claim to be Bible based but that is not a claim unique to them. eve creedal churches claim their creed is Bible based. Traditions have more to do with living out the creed and/or Bible.

Non Creedal churches have a lot more flexibility and diversity.
 
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My point is that even if no Protestant churches said a single peep about "what one tiny local congregation" does as a one-off , is it valid to accuse 100's of millions of Christians for what we find in one
no one is accusing. Just recognizing the reality of the protestant phenomenon
 
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Creedal churches such as Roman Catholics, the Orthodox Churches, The Anglican Communion and Lutheran Churches are creedal. They least start with a statement they can all assent to and it is based on an interpretation of the Bible. If one cant agree it is best to go somewhere else.

Statements of belief , "confessions of faith" are common to almost all including
  • the Baptist Confession of Faith (in the case of General Baptists)
  • the Baptist Faith and Message (in the case of Southern Baptists)
  • the "Westminster Confession of Faith"
  • the "Book of Common Prayer"
  • the Adventist's "28 Fundamental Beliefs"...

All denominations have some sort of defining set of beliefs.

They all have a statement they can all assent to and it is based on an interpretation of the Bible.
 
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The Roman Catholic church gave birth to a great many of them including the Orthodox church
The Orthodox Church is no different to how it was prior to the schism of 1054. The structure of the Orthodox Church and her theology did not change, so it is erroneous to claim the Roman Catholic Church gave birth to Eastern Orthodoxy.
 
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The Orthodox Church is no different to how it was prior to the schism of 1054. The structure of the Orthodox Church and her theology did not change, so it is erroneous to claim the Roman Catholic Church gave birth to Eastern Orthodoxy.

If you mean that prior to 1054 the Orthodox Church had excommunicated the Pope - I would need to see the documentation

East-West Schism, also called Schism of 1054, event that precipitated the final separation between the Eastern Christian churches (led by the patriarch of Constantinople, Michael Cerularius) and the Western church (led by Pope Leo IX). The mutual excommunications by the pope and the patriarch in 1054 became a watershed in church history. "​

Seems to me that a number of practices related to relics, images, purgatory etc are different between the two. In any case all those centuries of excommunicating each other come after 1053 not before -- agreed?
 
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If you mean that prior to 1054 the Orthodox Church had excommunicated the Pope - I would need to see the documentation
That isn't what I mean, but if that is your criteria then you need look no further than the mis-named "Photian schism". I say mis-named because it was Pope Nicholas who broke communion with the canonically elected Patriarch of Constantinople, not the other way around. A synod of bishops in Constantinople subsequently excommunicated Pope Nicholas.
 
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In any case all those centuries of excommunicating each other come after 1053 not before -- agreed?
No. There was also the Meletian schism, also mis-named, because it was once again Rome meddling where it had no authority to do so.
 
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The mods suggested that this might be the appropriate forum for this discussion concerning ex-Catholics. I ask commenters to not attack or disparage those who have left the Catholic church.

I grew up in the Catholic church and it was the only religion I had any experience with. My mother was a devout Catholic and my brothers and I went to church every Sunday and Catechism class every Saturday. I went to confession, and I was confirmed. However, I was not saved and by the time I was in high school I had doubts about Jesus and the Bible.

My mother taught me and it seemed confirmed by the church that we had to earn our salvation through good works. Many Catholics say that this is not taught in the church, but that was the only gospel I knew: believe in Jesus and work hard to get into heaven. But while I believed in a generic creator God, I was agnostic about Jesus and the Bible.

In my second year of college, searching for meaning in life, I began studying the Bible with a Protestant student group. They showed me the gospel of grace and salvation by faith, not by works. This was new to me and I was skeptical. But over several months of studying the Bible, I became convinced that they were right. Furthermore, this group of students was living out their beliefs in a way that made their lives far more attractive than any Catholics I knew.

So, I prayed to receive Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and began attending a non-denominational church on campus. This new form of worship was quite a culture shock for an insular Catholic such as myself. A week later, God spoke to my heart and called me to become a missionary.

When I returned home on break, my family was shocked - I had never gone through a rebellious phase and now I had left the church and become a religious fanatic. My father said I was insane. My mother made me go to our local priest and talk things out with him.

I told the priest that I left the church because they never taught me the gospel of grace, that I didn't accept the Pope's authority and that I wanted to interpret the Bible myself without the guidance of millennia of Church teachings (like praying to Saints), but I was very intent on living for Jesus and serving God as a missionary. Surprisingly, the priest actually agreed that it was better for me to leave the Catholic church. That's my story in a nutshell.

I encourage other Christians who have left the Catholic church to share their stories as well.
I left too. Bravo for having the courage to explain why to your priest. Maybe your testimony could lead him to salvation too.
I believe that it would be especially hard to leave if you had been born into it. I wasn't, but still had a bit of a struggle. (Imagine how hard it is for people of other faiths?)
As for family, mine think I'm a nut job too. Reminds me of that verse of Jesus's
'a man's enemies will be those of his own household'.
Numbers 6:24-26
 
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I told the priest that I left the church because they never taught me the gospel of grace, that I didn't accept the Pope's authority and that I wanted to interpret the Bible myself without the guidance of millennia of Church teachings (like praying to Saints), but I was very intent on living for Jesus and serving God as a missionary. Surprisingly, the priest actually agreed that it was better for me to leave the Catholic church. That's my story in a nutshell.

In other words, you figured out the same things that another ex-catholic did, the ex-catholic priest named Martin Luther.
 
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Why do you think he hasn't already found salvation where he is?

I do believe he explained exactly why.

Paul wrote a letter to the Roman Catholic Church telling them what they, the apostles, teach on how to be saved,
in Romans 10:8-13, yet the RCC does not teach the apostolic and biblical salvation that Paul gave them.

In other words, they don’t teach Christianity, but churchianity, and teach instead the doctrines of men.

Anyone can be saved wherever they are in less than five minutes, and it doesn’t take any church.

To become a child of God, we choose to receive Jesus, (John 1:12),by asking Him into our heart (Revelation 3:20), where He then dwells (Ephesians 3:17and Colossians 1:27), plus we must choose to repent and ask Him to forgive our sins so they are forgiven (Acts 3:19 and Acts 20:21), and call upon His name to be saved Romans 10:13.

Prayer for salvation: Lord Jesus, I believe you died for my sins and rose again - please come into my heart, forgive my sins, save my soul, and make me a new creation. In your name, amen.

No church needed, no infant baptism needed, and no priest has to “confirm” that we are saved, born again, and a child of God.
 
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Why do you think he hasn't already found salvation where he is?
I presume that the priest is not a 'born again Christian'...however, they may be a believer. I was a believer for many years. I wasn't born again, and certainly was not a 'good' Catholic.
This is probably a question for another thread, but, Is believing enough?
 
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I presume that the priest is not a 'born again Christian'...however, they may be a believer. I was a believer for many years. I wasn't born again, and certainly was not a 'good' Catholic.
This is probably a question for another thread, but, Is believing enough?
Born again is not really part of the Catholic experince, but I do remember some Catholics training other to say they are born again when talking with Protestants.

As a Catholic, I did not deny the Bible about being born again, it's just that did not seem to be a cornerstone of salvation that it is for me as a Protestant.

As a Catholic, salvation was about faith within the Catholic Church - you need both for salvation. Born again is too individualistic an idea to gain much traction with Catholics. (In my opinion as a former Catholic)
 
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I believe that it would be especially hard to leave if you had been born into it.

it wasn't difficult due to my reason for leaving-
abuse in church including several priests in more than one local church...one local priest sent to prison for life

I could never ever trust any priest now
suspicion would always be there in my head

plus was parent's religion forced on me/not my choice

however, didn't tell any family members who are all RC
my guess they figured it out when we didn't have first communion for our child
 
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